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Quote# 140579

(pobox1880)
Fed Up TIF

I think I hit peak trans when I saw someone say that TIMs should be allowed to feel uncomfortable around and avoid TIFs but the other way around is "transmisogyny". How are we any kind of threat to them? Why should they be allowed to avoid us but we can't do the same when we feel uncomfortable with them?

I have severe body dysphoria that I struggle with every day but I am sick and tired of people coddling TIMs who tower over me in size and strength and could probably snap my neck. I also disagree with the idea that there's no such a thing as female or male socialization. Obviously people who were raised a certain way will think that way. It's not rocket science. I know that I was raised to be a perfect daughter and fed every line in the book about how to act and behave long before I came to identify as trans. It's bullsh*t.

I'm just fed up. :/ Sorry if this comes across as stupid or something. I just needed a place to vent without being fed to the wolves.

(stellarmoth)
I used to babysit frequently and ever since I learned about female and male socialization I'd see it absolutely everywhere, even from the most "progressive" of families. The most obvious example being a girl whose parents held her behavior to a much higher standard than her brother's, who was free to be loud and roughhouse much of the time.

A lot of trans seem to believe that TIMs should be in female prisons, if only for their own safety (nevermind that of real women, who don't matter apparently). Ask them if they think TIFs belong in male prisons and that's when they suddenly realize that women are put in danger by the opposite sex, regardless of gender identity. That is not to say that I think TIMs are safe in male spaces, but rather that they can't identify out of the threat they pose to women any more than a TIF can identify out of sex based oppression.

It's a really obvious double standard.

I'm sorry things are tough for you right now and I hope you have a better day soon.

pobox1880 & stellarmoth, r/GenderCritical 1 Comments [9/21/2018 4:43:13 PM]
Fundie Index: 1

Quote# 140581

I don't trust all men on one basis: male socialization, which applies to all of them. To differing degrees and in different ways, sure, but still. Male socialization teaches them to look to women as inferior, as servile, as the ones to blame for their own actions toward them, as fleshy sex toys for their benefit, to be predators of women, to get the most they can for themselves short of it being unacceptable, to be blind to suffering in favor of "rational" principle, to be complicit and overlook the brutality and arrogance of their own group.

Then, it even goes as far as to have them suppress and shame their own emotions, so that they will remain effective as oppressors who will refrain from turning against their own group, who tends to even be shitty to them. No, he's not really a nice guy if he watches porn, and absolutely so if he is protective of his porn habits. If your boyfriend only considers the problem of it to be how its technically cheating to him, he either hasn't realized or doesn't care about the real problem of it.

I can only come to start trying to trust men who hate men themselves, which of course comes down to what the cult of masculinity demanded he himself become. However, even they have to be questioned on whether they are actual traitors to men or if they are simply that cunning to win your trust to then betray you personally. After all, the abusers who get the farthest are those who did the most in their power to avoid being recognized as one.

Candentia, r/GenderCritical 1 Comments [9/21/2018 4:44:47 PM]
Fundie Index: 0
Submitted By: Katie

Quote# 140546



(TRANSCRIPT of IMAGE: "I don't date incels" is INCELPHOBIC." "Excluding Incels from your dating pool isn't a harmless or innate preference, and it isn't a part of your sexual orientation". "It's an act stemming from bias that reinforces the oppression of Incels".)

A female's highest worth in this world is to assist incels, if spending time with them or even just complimenting them is enough to make them feel better then why not do so? At the end of the day, the highest purpose of the female is only to express admiration to those who need it, to build these men up. When you think about it incels are some of the most brilliant minds on Earth, it's usually the social outcast males who are the most intelligent. So they need to be appreciated more.

Be strong and rise above fellow subhumans. Males can be ostrasized, deformed, whatever but still have their brilliant minds. For it was men like incels who innovated and discovered, who conquered this Earth and gave us the privileges we have today. Females ought to give them some respect.

leftyincel, incels.me 13 Comments [9/20/2018 2:41:51 AM]
Fundie Index: 4
Submitted By: Katie

Quote# 135480

Alright bros. It’s time for some more feminist outrage comedy!

[link redacted]

Summary: For a long time, fat feminists have loved Mei from Overwatch because she looks fat. One of her new skins reveals that she isn’t actually fat. She just looked fat because she was wearing a snowsuit. Feminists are outraged, and so the manginas at Blizzard are changing Mei so that she actually is fat.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Look at the pic of Mei in the article. See that? That’s what curvy women actually look like.

Dear Fatasses: You are not “curvy”. Miss Hannah Minx is curvy. Mei is curvy … and she will remain curvy until Blizzard ruins her. You aren’t curvy if you are a thundering pile of slop with a triple chin.

In the meantime, let’s enjoy curvy Mei while she lasts.

http://i0.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/215/824/9f1.jpg

Uintatherium, MGTOW 7 Comments [12/24/2017 9:51:25 AM]
Fundie Index: 3

Quote# 137804

Asylum is not gender neutral: the refugee crisis in Europe from a feminist perspective

(black_rad_fem)
What do you guys think about sex-based refugee policy? I recently participated in a panel discussion about violence against women, and one of the panelists mentioned the need for a refugee policy that favors women and children due to them being vulnerable populations.

I think it is also an interesting discussion in the context of the US, because we have many migrants (mainly women and children) who are escaping gang violence in Central America.

Should we prioritize asylum applications based on sex? How can we work as an international community to help women in conflict zones?

(Terfy_McTerf_face)
This is one of the few scenarios in which American men (in my experience) will actually acknowledge that this is a security issue for these women, and that their and their children's safety comes before that of single, able-bodied men. Though I cannot help but wonder if this mentality comes out of racism towards those men rather than a genuine concern for those women.

I 100% support allowing women and children in but not men. Wars are problems created for men, by men, and I have a hard time mustering up any sympathy for them.

(NPerez99)
I see this is marked as controversial, but we should be able to discuss male violence here, surely? I'm not a US native and come from a machismo culture, and that culture is here in the states where my fellow immigrants are but some of it is sanded down a generation later by the impact of US culture on us immigrants. Especially due to the impact (economic) on the women who may be single and working like me. I'm not speaking about traditions, cooking, important cultural or religious festivities because in the US all people are encouraged to keep such traditions, and we do! But that other non-tangible "man" culture (suddenly I can't find words to describe this in English please bear with my rambling), so I understand what you are talking about. Some cultures are more macho violent than others, and if I had a son here in the US today he may be influenced more by my home countries culture than US culture purely due to where I live and the social network we have in this neighbourhood. If some tough gang member types start influencing him as a teen, what can I put against that? Church? I'm personally not religious but my home country and family is very much so, so it would be an easy step to take. But what if the church is where the gang members recruit (don't laugh that has happened) It's something that needs to be addressed but I really don't have an inkling of a solution myself.

(ISLAC)
Hard. Personally, I suggest cultural adoption.

I mean, the culture of my birth country is rotten. There is not much to save, and there are risks in claiming it- like you said. Why bother keeping it?

So I suggest to drop all traditions/ cooking/important cultural and religious activities, and to replace them by those of the new country - changing religions if necessary. They are not much different anyway.

I know it looks like too much to ask, but I believe it is the best choice to make

(womanandchildren1st)
Non-immigrant European women produce violent and/or oppressive males too. I'll wait for the defensive moms of sons to attack this post but I'm probably going to wait forever because apparently it's okay to say stuff like this about brown and black people on this sub

(Administrative_Camel)
Why is it considered acceptable to observe sex-based crime statistics but not race-based ones? Both sex and race are immutable characteristics of birth.

(vulvapeople)
My proposal would be to allow women and children in almost without question (perhaps some screening to make sure we're not admitting cartel lackeys or what-have-you). Once they're settled in, then the women can send for "their" men, which is in direct opposition to how immigration/asylum programs tend to work in practice. Very frequently it's the men who come over first and either send money to their families back home or send for them. In the case of refugees, the way it works in practice strikes me as particularly asinine because women and children are far more vulnerable in war zones and refugee camps than men are. They also run the risk of the door slamming shut after the men arrive and before the men can send for their families, which is happening in Europe as we speak.

various TERFs, r/GenderCritical 2 Comments [4/14/2018 11:09:08 AM]
Fundie Index: 8

Quote# 139449

You can be an ally. You cannot be a feminist, that means having a voice in the fight for female liberation from male oppression. It makes no sense to give voice to men (the oppressors) in feminism (liberation from men)

Just like straight people can only be allies to the LGB. I'm bisexual, therefore those are my rights to fight for. You can be an ally. I'm white passing, but not white, so I do have a voice in ending institutional racism, but I need to always be mindful of my white passing privilege and I will never take up resources for PoC.

BlindNationality, r/Ask_Radical_Feminists 11 Comments [8/2/2018 3:15:21 PM]
Fundie Index: 5
Submitted By: Katie

Quote# 140559

This has been going on for a while now. Teachers and professors from across the country have been making their way to national headlines by making ludicrous claims on how women should behave/dress/live. It seems like this exclusive club of sexist academics is ever growing.

Not too long ago, a professor from Kozhikode ridiculed female students in his college for revealing their breasts like "slices of watermelon". Before that, a college principal from Mumbai said PCOS -- polycystic ovary syndrome -- happens to women who dress like men. Even before that, a nursing school in Kollam district forbade its female students to lock doors while changing, for they were worried that the girls were up to "lesbian sex".

Now, a teacher from Kerala claims that women who wear jeans -- wait for it -- give birth to transgender children.

Meet Rajith Kumar, a botany lecturer at Kalady's Sree Sankara College, who has a long history of coming up with sexist and homophobic theories. This is what this 'doctor' said on a live TV show recently:

"...a woman who dresses up like a man, what will be the character of the child she gives birth to? These children are called 'transgenders' or 'napumsakam'. Hijra,".
- Rajith Kumar

There's more...

A report on The News Minute points out that Rajith Kumar had stressed that "good" children are born to men and women who dress and live as men and women (whatever that means):

"When a woman degrades her womanhood and a man degrades his manhood, the girl born to them is man-like. The child this girl later gives birth to will be a transgender."
- Dr Rajith Kumar

That's not all. 'Doctor' Rajith Kumar also believes that autistic children are born to 'rebel' men and women, especially women who wear jeans.

Rajith Kumar , India Today  6 Comments [9/20/2018 2:48:26 AM]
Fundie Index: 7

Quote# 140487

this world was created by men. go outside and look around. everything you see was put there by a man. every luxury you experience is there because of men. every sip of water you drink from a tap was possible because of men. every brick you see was placed by men, almost every item you own to make your life better is there because of the blood, sweat and tears of generations of men working hard to create the world you live in today. and who are the people who enjoy the fruits of our labour the most? women.

what have women been able to contribute which is comparable to that of men? and yet there are women's rights protests demanding equality between the sexes and an end to the patriarchy. and it is men who have been weak enough to let this happen. women do not deserve equality. equality is earned. not given.

MaxZM98, incels.me 11 Comments [9/18/2018 2:53:35 AM]
Fundie Index: 3
Submitted By: Katie

Quote# 140391

(PynkPussyDiet)
Does anyone else feel sad for women who are trying to be male?

I went in AskTG and there's a few FtM posts that just make me so sad. I hated being female from 11-14 fuck actually I only started liking being a woman after discovering this sub and radical feminism. Around 11 I went through a phase where I told people call me by a boy's name and cut off my hair. I got mad when boys my age called me male though (they were dicks though).

I feel like so many of these girls describe the powerlessness all women feel. All women want to be treated as male. All women hate being female (the way society treats us, period issues, dealing with doctors) so I really feel for FtM who describe wanting to be male. It's just really really sad that society has beaten so many of us down to the point we can't even identify with our own bodies.

It sucks that FtM feel like they can't come to our sub cause we're hateful in their minds.

Could we make a stickied post directly for FtM? Basically saying what GC women stand for, what radical feminism is, maybe something supportive? I like that this sub is combative and does encourage discussion (arguments) but maybe in the stickied post we can avoid posts saying they should fight for women's rights instead of dipping out of the gender.

Idk. It just made me sad because I understand FtM and many don't see that we do. Thoughts?

(ChewMyMeatForYou)
I mean, as an infertile woman with menstrual issues, I can understand how a uterus feels like a timebomb. As a trauma survivor, I understand the desire to be invisible and walk unmolested by even the male gaze.

But as a spiritual feminist, no, that's where I get lost. Because some here might think it ridiculous or magical thinking or reinforcing the ladyfeels, but I am a creature tied to the moon, to the ebb and flow of the tides, who can read energy, and that is absolutely biological and not my social conditioning. I see SO many TIMs trying to colonize witchcraft and it urks me, because I know they cannot feel how we know why the moon goes dark and full. To be a woman is to know mystery. Anyone on birth control is somewhat divorced from this experience.

I also don't understand the TIFs obsessions to be gay men. It's wierd af to me, to be appropriating their culture and it's like the TIFs want to be simultaneously liked for being campy and attractive, but hold on to that sassybitchcard and avoid the confrontation of being an assertive female. Gay mens' obsession with appearance is just as shallow as a woman obsessed with makeup and clothes. They're just conscripted for assumed consensual anal.

I'm trying to be as understanding as I can, but I don't understand people who try to make fantasy reality. We ALL live with limitations and weaknesses. Some people view that as a challenge to overcome them, some embrace them as a Christian duty to bear, some ignore them to their detriment. The overwhelming amount of trans folks obsessed with porn and anime says they are people detached from universal human emotion.

PynkPussyDiet & ChewMyMeatForYou, r/GenderCritical 6 Comments [9/10/2018 3:52:17 PM]
Fundie Index: 5

Quote# 140534

(in response to an article about a trans woman who says that there are times and places where sexual objectification is fine and that, in those places, she WANTS to be objectified. For extra fundie points, note how many of them have ironic names.)

PhenomenalWoman: (because you're mentally ill)

OrganizedJen: They need to get some mental help. You are not a woman. That is why you are not objectified like we are.
They know you're a fucking man!

ashbee: Only a man would say that.

YoungBougieBlac: These people need mental treatment. [...] I'm tired of them including "people of color" in their arguments. Stop comparing trans and being black period full stop

wecarealot: Because you're a fucking man. Of course men think sexual objectification is fine because they're usually the ones doing it. And in this case, this person wants to be objectified because they feel they're a woman inside even though they're biologically male.

Corgi: Trans women stay wanting to believe that they are no different from people born female. Everything regular women find harmful and degrading they find empowering because it validates their identity. We all know they need constant 24/7 validation.

LazyDaisy: it's even worse because here you are, a marginalized identity putting forth this image and promoting this culture that's rampant among transwomen that them being sexually desired makes them "accepted" or even coveted in society and that somehow they'll replace ciswomen because they're sought for sexually. No. Get help, now. You're only doing a disservice to yourself and other transwomen by promoting your sexual objectification as something positive.

cosmiclatte: They're weird as hell. Literally everything bio women can't stand they love and envy us for. Most women hate being cat called because it's rude and they know that there's a possiblity they could be sexually assaulted but trans/non binary people that are jealous of females see it as a sign of admiration.

Unnie: This person is clearly MALE because only MEN don't find an issue with viewing women as sex objects.

coolgirlia: Only a man would think that the essence of being a woman is being sexually oppressed.

BambiGambino: Everything about the trans-movement advocates for violence against women and the silencing of our issues because they're transphobia and offensive.

LaDela: it doesn't surprise me that a mentally ill male-bodied trans "woman" would feel this way. Most of them feel this way. People like this are a danger to the public and especially to biological women.

talkign2much: This "wanting to be sexually objectified" is male thinking. He can't deny his maleness. He's a damn fool. Why did I bother reading this mess? I need a shot of mango juice to calm down and forget about reading about this fool.

Dr.Girlfriend: How is he qualified to talk about women's issues when he can't even get pretending right?

80sIcons: Women do not like being objectified. But he's a man and has no idea on what it's like to be a woman.

JenThePen: Only a man would say or think this.

Duckieee: only a biological born male would think this is acceptable. You might have the female body parts and pronouns but you still clearly have the mentality of a man.

Terry Mcginnis: I'm not surprised that a man thinks it's okay to look at others as sub-human and see only value in a person's look. This is why I subscribe to terfism.

locacoca: This just in: men don't know what objectification is, never have, never will and also they don't know anything about feminism.

These wypipo also think their argument is valid if they stick 'white, cis, able-bodied' in front of everything then woc and disabled women must think "Oh they must be right" because we have no critical thinking skills whatsoever.

BotswanaB: He wishes straight men would objectify him like they do with real women.

Fetty Queen: Of course she wants to be objectified. She may have cut her dick off but she still has a male brain and men think this type of behavior is a compliment.

GeorgeSorrows: These people don't realize that biological sex is not just a matter of chromosomes. Sex has such a heavy influence on human physiology and that includes BRAIN physiology. IN GENERAL men and women don't process their environment the same way. That is, we may get to the same destination, but our pathways there will differ. This is not a matter of personality and socialization but a matter of BIOLOGY. Transwomen will still think like men.
The SRY gene expressed on the Y-chromosome makes SRY protein which is expressed in the testicles and in the BRAIN. Male brains differ from female brains
This is a FACT

IngaLou: Spoken like a true man! It seems like I never hear all these dumb things from transmen.

But I'm sure that's just a coincidence, right?

Various TERFs, Lipstick Alley 5 Comments [9/20/2018 2:31:56 AM]
Fundie Index: 3
Submitted By: Thanos6

Quote# 140490

This is common sense. Most people know this. It’s only the trans and their handmaidens who are trying to erase females as a biological sex who are clueless that this is not a hate crime. Heaven forbid a poor trans is faced with the biological proof that they claim to be something they can never be.

May Loo, GenderTrender 4 Comments [9/18/2018 2:55:48 AM]
Fundie Index: 4
Submitted By: Katie

Quote# 140489

Are females the main reason for terrorist radicalization?

"The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth." I'm an atheist, but I'm finally starting to understand that the purpose of religion is to keep female hypergamy under control. How can women expect a man to suffer his entire life and deny his strongest biological impulses while they form harems around the hottest men? How can they expect us to slave away for NOTHING while Chad has women lining up for the opportunity to suck his cock dry? Female hypergamy is the greatest injustice of the 21st century.

Slavery was abolished because one human should not rule over another human. Women have turned this fight for "equality" into a fight for DOMINANCE. They want to rule over us and lock us down in the mines to support their lavish lifestyle while they forget that we even exist. I can't imagine a man turning insane and throwing his life away if he had a loving woman in his life. Tall, white men have taken all their women, so their only choice is JIHAD so they can finally get a woman in Heaven.

Potbellypos, incels.me 7 Comments [9/18/2018 2:55:17 AM]
Fundie Index: 5
Submitted By: Katie

Quote# 140488

Oh no, a female rubbed her ass on my crotch, my life is ruined.

It's funny how ridiculous it sounds when genders are reversed. Gender equality is such a joke.

Women don't want to be harassed, ok. Be always accompanied by your father, brother or husband, dress modestly and there you go.

Mainländer, incels.me 9 Comments [9/18/2018 2:53:54 AM]
Fundie Index: 5
Submitted By: Katie

Quote# 140448

LOL no surprise. Women have no morals and can't follow rules clearly without 'emotions' getting in the way. Women infantry = weaker military

digitalEarthling, r/MGTOW 9 Comments [9/14/2018 3:24:55 AM]
Fundie Index: 3
Submitted By: Katie

Quote# 140449

GOP will hold the Senate.

House race too close to call. Newly elected reps will be either Fuggernaut Freakazoids from the coasts or pro-Trump Dems.

If the House flips, blame suburban married White women and urban single White women. These dumb traitorous broads can’t resist the siren song of the lying scumbag Fake News media. The ZOGbeat of anti-Trump hysteria is taking its toll on the weaker sex.

As I’ve been saying for a while, our unregulated womenfolk will be the end of our nation. 2018 may seal the deal.

CH, Chateau Heartiste 12 Comments [9/14/2018 3:25:29 AM]
Fundie Index: 6

Quote# 140426

Camillo, bonobo alpha male in the DRC, fathered 60% of the babies in his community



(bcat124)
The blackpill literally transcends species. How can anyone not see the obvious conclusion that our current liberal culture on sexuality is leading us exactly to this.

(Parkinmyyard)
Evolutionfuel

Can’t deny that this is at the heart of evolved human sexuality. Only one man is needed to impregnate every woman in the village. Why would any woman want anyone but the most alpha?

(incelicious)
Yeah mud hut level technology is pretty awesome. Fuck going to space and shit. Thank god for low-IQ alphas amirite?

He's not saying it's right he's just explaining how "alpha fucks beta bucks" works which normies deny.


Normies deny it today because they are still mentally living in the Victorian era of M'Lady fedora tipping. They refuse to acknowledge that their feminist horseshit is only making alphafux betabux more of a reality with each passing day. AFBB would have been socially unthinkable a few centuries ago, because that would imply descent into primitive behavior again.

Female sexuality is primitive and unless you shame and control female sexuality, we'll be back in the Stone Age again.

High IQ. Even sociologists have noted that non-mongomous societies are always more primitive and tribal than societies with strict socially enforced mongomy. We will slip back into mud hut tier society of we don't control female sexuality soon.


Correct.

Blue Pill = Bonobo society = Matriarchy = Chad wins every time = Primitive stone age eat and fuck all day while 90% LDAR

Black Pill = Chimp society = Patriarchy = even lower ranked guys get action and it is in the interest of higher ranked guys to make sure lower ranked guys get action = We colonizing space and shit

Here, this completely proves my point that patriarchal Chimp society is far superior while bonobos remain primitive:

Chimps have entered the stone age in tool technology. BONOBOS HAVE NOT.

(Rhinen_Spores)
Wonder why the rest of the bonobo-cels haven't teamed up and revolted against the few in charge.


They usually do.

It's an ongoing game of politics where the betas will band together to overthrow the alpha.

The problem is that once they win, another man becomes the alpha and the cycle starts all over again.

Basically lesser apes spend all their time fighting each other for the distribution of sex,so nothing outside of eating, fucking and fighting gets done.

Hominids used to be like this but differentiate their selves through pair bonding. For modern humans, eventually all the males agreed upon a system of social stratification where every guy can get some woman, while the guy at the top gets slightly more women. This happened around the same time as agriculture.

Once men stopped fighting and competing for access to sex, they had free time and energy to focus on other things, like developing society, technology and religion.

(mittrinilli)
Pair bonding results in civilization, pussy chasing the top 20% results in the collapse of society. Enjoy the decline, it's so over

some incels, r/Braincels 9 Comments [9/13/2018 2:18:47 PM]
Fundie Index: 3

Quote# 140373

[on trans men]

I know that for many, the greatest state of emergency will be what seems to be the almost unstoppable trend of lesbian women who are “transitioning”, and destroying their beautiful, healthy female bodies in the process – as well as erasing their lesbian herstory and identity.

I feel a deep sorrow for this state of affairs, and when I have read descriptions of what women put their bodies through, and the details of the surgeries that some go on to seek, my heart sinks at how self-hating, how female hating this is. It is misogyny written upon the bodies of women, and it is truly terrible.

The trend for “transgender children” is particularly horrifying and is evidence of how damaging the essentialist idea of “gender” that is promulgated by the Transgender cult is.

...male privilege and entitlement, in the guise of transgenderism, is driving a movement that has, and will continue to hurt all women as long as our voices are silent...

Naefearty, naefearty.wordpress.com 16 Comments [9/9/2018 6:16:00 AM]
Fundie Index: 4
Submitted By: WarGoatHK417

Quote# 140408

Typical. why not actually prevent a portion of said suicides by spreading eagle for a few thousand less fortunate incels? attentionwhoremaxxing in full effect once again...a foid couldn't care less.

khafail, incels.me 15 Comments [9/12/2018 1:45:00 AM]
Fundie Index: 5
Submitted By: Katie

Quote# 140423

blackpills dropped on the front page



(CelderSrolls)
The media always have lied abour women being the empathetic gender. It turned out men is the most honest gender of the 2. Talk about fake news that the media try to spread against men.


They don't have fucking empathy, they don't even feel love.

Men feel love and passion so much stronger than women do. A wife will lie, steal, cheat, abuse, etc to her husband and he will stick around and try to make it work. Even though he should leave, he will stay because he loves this woman. She is his everything. But a woman will dump him the split second a hotter guy smiles her way. It's fucking insane.

I have no doubt women cheat more, just from personal experience and experience of friends (And talking to women)

(hello237878)
Loyalty is a male concept


Not necessarily. Look up the blackpill research on this. Women that are virgins going into marriage overwhelmingly stay loyal, and the marriage lasts both partners lifetime in more than 80% of cases. The more men the woman has been with before marriage, the greater the chance that the marriage ends in failure, to the point where it's basically guaranteed to fail if the woman has had a certain number of partners. Men don't pair bond through sex, but women do, so this makes a lot of sense. The more casual sex a woman has, the more her ability to pair bond gets burned out... So, if you want a happy marriage with a loyal grill who actually loves you; marry a virgin with an intact pair bonding ability. Sex will seal the partnership and you'll live happily together. Marry a 20+ body count sloot and sex will literally mean nothing to her and she'll feel no desire to remain loyal.

CelderSrolls & hello237878, r/Braincels 3 Comments [9/13/2018 2:12:32 PM]
Fundie Index: 1

Quote# 140424

Incel IT mod doubts the importance of personality, is downvoted by his own forum: episode 3



(Throvvmeawayyy)
would you enjoy being with someone that treats you like shit even though you found them physically attractive?


I dont know, lets ask all the girls who choose to stay in abusive relationships with Chad when they could leave him at any moment if they wanted to. Oh wait, actually lets not since your bullshit argument would just fall apart instantly. Fuck I hate IT

(supermentalcel)
i have said this so many times recently. 60-80% of women in abusive relationships eventually return to their abuser and they return on average 7 times before finally leaving for good. not one person has tried to explain or refute this.

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(AbysmalDescent)
Or the girls who choose to stay in abusive relationships with Chad-lites who treat them like shit, despite having plenty of other, non-abusive, options ready and willing literally orbiting around them. Or girls who choose to enter into relationships with Chad-lites, specifically because of his abusive/toxic personality("oh, he treats women like shit, he must be high value!").

(JoeMamaSaidWhat)
Like people don't do that all the time... The only reason I stayed with my terrible ex is because she was a super pawg. I just dealt with her bullshit best I could and just tried to smash regularly lol.

(Thestartofending)
Females can only think of this manichean, beyond retarded and simplistic answer "but but would you be with someone who's good looking but with an aaaaawful personality ? " not only good looking men who have awful personality have success with women, but even if it was true that an extremely awful personality repulsed women, that doesn't show that good looks matter less or as much as personality.

Here is a legit comparison :

Someone who is average looking but with an awesome personality. Vs someone who is good looking vs an average/not bad not interresting personality.

And among those two, it's obvious who will attract women.

Going to extremes doesn't prove shit, "well i wouldn't chose chad if he has asperger and is a child rapist" doesn't prove that personality matters as much as look, just that some extremes rare cases of attributes can ruin even the huuuge advantage of looks

some incels, r/Braincels 5 Comments [9/13/2018 2:14:51 PM]
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Quote# 140418

being a bi radfem really is something else because deep down the only way you know you could be happy with a man is if, among other things, he doesn't watch porn and the only men who don't watch porn in 2018 are hardline trads who don't think women should vote

#radfem #radical feminism #bisexual #bisexuality #anti-porn #being bi is so nice in theory but men are trash #so you're female-exclusive but guess what a lot of lesbians aren't into bi girls #and it's tough to find bi women who aren't also... like that #you know what I mean #personal

felidame, Tumblr 10 Comments [9/13/2018 2:07:49 PM]
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Submitted By: Thanos6

Quote# 140425

IncelTears Incel mod loses hope.



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I get rejected like 10 times a month. It's called "dating."

This is a pretty classic cognitive distortion. What the other person says is, "I am not attracted to you." What they hear is "You are not attractive." It's taking a non-personal thing intensely personally.

I know the classic incel response to this: "When it happens over and over, it's hard not to take personally." Well, I know some absurdly hot people. Like, stupid hot. They get rejected, flaked on, and ghosted constantly. This happens to everyone. You've just found a group of self-defeating people who reinforce the worst/most useless thoughts that pop into your head. You're victimizing yourself.


It’s understandable that some people even when very attractive get rejected from time to time. But 10 times a month is incel level depending on the amount of women he dates. If he’s asking 12 people on a date a month and getting rejected 10 times a month he’s not very good looking in general. If he’s asking 50 a month and being rejected 10 times he’s not very good looking either. If he’s asking 100 a month and getting rejected 10 times that’s understandable - but nobody has the time in their right mind to ask 100 people a month out on a date.

He clearly doesn’t understand dating and using rejection like it’s normal. If you’re hot you’ll get rejected maybe 5 times out of 100 people you ask on a date.

This is coming from experience as I’m a decently attractive person - I’ve never been rejected by a woman (since I turned 18, and probably haven’t been rejected 10 time in my lifetime) but some dates haven’t gone as far as two.

This idiot is tricking his brain with lies like ‘well hot people get flaked on’ yes they do, but not often like he’s making out. Or - he clearly doesn’t know what an attractive man looks like.

Ryanreyne, r/Braincels 3 Comments [9/13/2018 4:24:23 PM]
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Re: Cops Say 13-Year-Old Boy Traumatized From Endless Sex With Hot Teacher

(Brandon)
This kid wasn't traumatized, this is the dream of every 13 year old with a hot teacher. That doesn't make it ok, it still messed up. But this kid is anything but traumatized, he's going to talk about this for most of his life.

(Guest)
I have to agree. There is a double standard I acknowledge that but this kid is going to be bragging about this for the rest of his life. I'm not saying it's ok. The teacher is a weirdo and the parents are nuts.

(Brandon)
I live in the town this happened, I never stop hearing coverage on it. According to every single one of the people who knew of there relationship, they say the boy sparked the start of this relationship.

The only thing that probably will traumatize him, is the abortion the teacher had with his child.

(T llama)
yer probably sick of this thread, but....

I think this falls under the fundamental difference between men and women. Or in this case boys and girls.

Was this 'wrong?' Yes.

Is this going to mess the boy up for life? Prolly not, especially as he encounters real women and not sexual predators. Your point that it can mess with this boys view of sex and women is correct, but speaking as a man, who was once a boy, I don't believe this isnt anything that wont get worked out in this boy's life as he grows up and meets strong female role models. Of course having a child at 13-14 yrs old is another discussion...

I won't say this was OK simply because the boy (IMO) is not messed up for life. I agree with you, there are laws to protect children and those laws are good ones; for boys and girls.

Not being a woman, i do believe in a world that glorifies and pushes women as objects (trump's experiences with women is a perfect example) i see how women (girls) are more vulnerable to this type of predatory behavior.

Again, this is just one of those things in life that can't be applied equally across the sexes. It was wrong. A child as a result is FUBAR but given it was a woman taking advantage of a boy, I'm less inclined to be bothered by it.

Take advantage of a 13yr old girl and i'll string you up myself. This might be considered sexist, but i still believe in women and children first....which is prolly sexist to some.

I think the difference of opinion, throughout this thread, is that some see this as a black and white issue and some of 'us' see this as a shade of gray.

If we are on a sinking ship; ill evacuate after women and children; not sure what would constitute a 'child' in that situation, but personally, 17 and younger. An 18 yr old guy may have to fight me for that last seat on the life boat;)

In 'this' situation, with some admittance of double standard (i wanted to say hippocrasy but cant seem to spell it;)) men see this different, even 13 yr old boys dealing with puberty; its different. Something a woman cannot understand as a man and vs versa.

'We' see this as an offense, but not as disgusting as if the sexes were reversed and 'I' believe that offense against a female of that age to be way worse.

Double standard. I admit it. But I am a guy. Was once a boy. Were you? Its one of those situations ya may have to yield to experience; as I would if the situation was reversed.

(mousekiller)
soon it will be the norm and any misgivings you and I have about it is moot. The leftists liberals are killing this country. Temoving any morals we have. Look at how they have changes the bathroom( restroom) by alowig boys in the girls restroom, lockers rooms and showers. WHF is going on with this country? It is time to say NO MORE . If you have the equipment of a male, your a male . It doesn't matter if you are wearing a skirt and lipstick. Use the mens room. ( unless of course your afraid your ass will be laughed at. If your a man and my daughter and or grand daughter is in womans restroom and you go in . You will be a woman when you come out..Enough is enough. Lets face it. If we don't stand up for our selves we are alone.

(stu magoo)
legally raped? as opposed to illegally raped? explain the difference please. never mind. every red blooded heterosexual 13 y/o boy would be bragging about this forever. that doesn't make it right for the teacher, but the kid being traumatized? please!

(REALConservative)
The month I turned 14, one of the 30'something married female chaperone's of our church youth group made me a man in the back of her van in the parking lot of a roller skating rink.

I never told an adult because I was afraid my parents would beat MY a... if they found out.

She and her husband owned a christian book store; let's just say folks were impressed with how much I liked to go to the christian book store; they were convinced I was going to be a a preacher. Such is not the behavior of a traumatized young boy.

(mousekiller)
It is every boys dream to be involved in a sex situation like that . No boy that age is a puritan. It is a natural feeling and urge and few young men ever get the chance to satisfy that natural urge. . Not even consider the legality of it. I damn sure would not have turned her down were it me when I was 13 if the opportunity presented it's self to me.. Neither would 99% of the men posting here. How many 13 year olds consider the law when ogling the scantly clothed women in magazines and on the street or in Walmart? Lets face it walking down the street in beach wear turns a lot of heads..Fires up the imagination. in young men.

various commenters, Daily Wire 23 Comments [9/5/2018 2:58:02 PM]
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Dasho, Reddit 8 Comments [9/9/2018 9:13:35 AM]
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Submitted By: hydrolythe

Quote# 140390

In 2004 a crazed wife (aka, The Blue-Eyed Butcher) in Houston, Texas, tied her alleged abusive husband to a bed, stabbed him to death from head-to-toe 193 times, and then the insane courts only required her to spend 10-years in prison. She buried the body beneath the house, which was discovered a week later. The family dog had gnawed his hand off. If that had been a man who murdered his wife, he'd been given the death penalty or life in prison at a minimum. Women are given unfair leniency in the court system. Stabbing someone to death 193 times in anger is not self-defense. There are countless Americans serving life sentences for first-time drug offences!!! Something is VERY wrong with America's hypocritical, biased and rigged court system.

David J. Stewart, Jesus is Savior 9 Comments [9/11/2018 11:42:03 AM]
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