[This was part of an email exchange between Rebecca M. Ross, a Jewish blogger, and another Jew identified only as "MC."]
[The references to lo sasuru refer to ("You shall not stray (V'lo sasuru) after your heart and after your eyes" (Bamidbar 15:39))]

There is no group that has perfect shlaimus and G-d consciousness. Lets say a person keeps shabbos to the letter of the law but after shabbos watches films that cause him to transgress commandments of the Torah such as lo sasuru. Let's say a persons wife wears two head coverings and very thick stockings but if you do business with this person you notice that he is dishonest. Lets say a Jew gives thousands of dollars per year to Chai Lifeline or another fine organization but also marches in the NYC toivah marraige [gay marriage] parade wearing womens clothing.
So you can seevwe all need serious help!

["This is what you consider 'having problems?' Yes, you're right. Anyone who would have a problem with this has problems. ... Your concern for someone's sexuality is a big problem. I support marriage equality."]

I threw in the example of the parade just to find out where you were holding. I now know where you are holding and now that I see you aree on the side of the immoral gay rights crowd there's nothing left to talk about. You are not even at The level of moral clarity of regular decent non-Jews.
I hope that in the future you will convert back to judaism and then we could have a discussion about some of the issues you brought up. I wish you well. I wish you clarity to accept the Moral values of your grandparents great grandparents all the way back to Mount Sinai.