“If women are not obligated to give sex to their husbands, what are their marriage obligations?”
Okay, see, as far as I recall, MY obligation is to love, honor, and cherish.
You don’t ‘love’ someone by making them put out against their will.
It’s not an ‘honor’ to coerce sex.
Pretty sure that by ‘cherish,’ they don’t mean ‘ignore her desires.’
“The marriage deal used to be as follows :
Husband provides resources and protection”
Right, right, jobs are masculine. Sure, sure.
“Wife provides children and homemaking”
So, PAID jobs are masculine, 24-hour on-call maid, nurse, teacher, cook, waitress, and scullery maid jobs are feminine.
“Nowadays husbands are still held under coercion to provide resources and protection,”
Oh, NOES! COERCED! You have to do something you don’t WANT to do, and you feel that it’s WRONG!
…and you feel that she should fuck you any time you want, even if she doesn’t feel like it.
You’re a bit of a hypocrite, ain’tcha?
"but wives do whatever the fuck they want. No wonder there's a crisis.”
There’s no crisis. The world has moved on without your 1950’s-sitcom view of life. Women expect to be in a partnership. Not a cosplay.
“That redpill woman you're quoting knows what's up.”
Oh, look, you found a woman on the net that thinks like a 50’s man of the house. Just means she’s as out of touch as you are. If she’s a she, that is.
“If she can say no to sex, why wouldn't her husband say no to being her money faucet?”
G’head. No, seriously. If you aren’t getting what you want out of a relationship, then make threats and withhold your services until she at least meets you halfway.
Or dumps you. That is a risk you take for the choice you make.
“What will she do once her fertile years are gone?”
Marry up, sounds like.
“Who will support her?”
Okay, so EVERY divorced woman i know had left it WAY too late to leave the bastard. Various fears impact, including wondering how she’ll survive without him.
And EVERY divorced woman i know has gone on to support herself. And they become VERY choosy about their second husband (if any). They learn, they grow, and the stop putting up with our shit.
“The traditional marriage deal is actually skewed in favor of women in that husbands are kept under coercion until the wife dies although she usually has long outlasted her usefulness in the marriage deal.”
If all you want out of a woman is her ability and willingness to fuck you, rent companionship.
If you see marriage as a burden, then die single. No one will miss you.
"She's just being given stuff for providing nothing in return once she has produced and reared the all important children.”
I suppose it’s too complicated to think of the post-offspring ‘stuff’ you’re giving her the same as a military retirement? We risk our lives for X years, we get a certain amount of support for the rest of our lives? She gave you kids, which is a risk, pregnancy can kill, she should get compensation, don’t you think?
Also, someone has to still cook your dinner, right?
Jesus, what a loser.
“The current western marriage deal only exists as it is because the State is enforcing it to be that unbalanced.”
It’s only ‘unbalanced’ in your estimate because you put a LOT of weight on your contribution, and little on hers, and you have no idea what you’re talking about.
Imagine you have provided a big and happy home, and the day the youngest graduates high school, she just leaves. You don’t even know which soap goes in the dishwasher. Or which cycle on the washing machine won’t ruin your clothes.
"It uses reproductive sexual relationships as a wealth extraction tool.”
Then you’d better avoid it. There’s no happiness to be found there.
"If you don't want to end up living with cats, time to get back to traditional marriage.”
Ooooooooooooor, you can catch up to at LEAST the 1970s, if not this century.