I'm sorry she did that to you man. My mother did the same thing to my father back in 2008. Used his religion (hes Muslim) to get him arrested with no evidence whatsoever. I'm not kidding; she legitimately called the cops saying "I think hes a terrorist" and that was enough to throw him in jail until the case was thrown out the next year. The courts are biased against men, no question about it. People want to look at gender oppression? Here it is, in one of its most deadly forms. My dad isn't the same. That same strong, African war survivor is gone.