["George" is distraught to find out his wife has been flirting with another man on the internet.]

George, I hate to break it to you, but your wife's flirting isn't for no reason. It's actually a sign that things are not right in your marriage. And, guess what, George! It's all your fault! Okay, so it may not be all your fault. Let's just round it out to 99.3% your fault.

But don't be mad at me! Rav Shalom Arush, in his bestselling marital guide, The Garden of Peace, puts the blame on the husband! You see, marriage is really more for the man than the woman. By nature, women are more giving and nurturing, and they tend to put themselves last. On the other hand, men are more selfish, self-centered, egotistical, prideful, and tend to put themselves on a pedestal. That's why a man is supposed to get married: so he is forced to focus on someone else's needs for a change. Let's review that again, George. Marriage is the perfect setup to teach a man how to put the needs of his wife and his family before his own. It's a man's main mission in life, and all of your rationalizations around it isn't going to change that fact.