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i am 45 and married to already 15 years now after the sexual desire of my woman has nearly gone i am looking to marry again. And i would like to marry a woman who is 12 years old, her father and she has also agreed, my first wife told me that it could make problems if it will be a big different in age, and also some of my children are older than my second wife. What is your advise ? And is it allowed for me to have already sexual intercourse with these woman after we are married or to i have to wait till she reach at special age ?

Question 6737 from Germany, web.archive.org 19 Comments [2/20/2017 6:01:46 PM]
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My advice is you seek therapy.

2/20/2017 6:18:06 PM

Nomen Nescio

my advice is you get yourself a 9mm lobotomy. but that's just me.

2/20/2017 7:07:32 PM

I would advise you to get a good sharp knife and cut your wrists.

2/20/2017 7:18:44 PM

Psycho Tits

ETA: Okay, I'll give a serious answer: Beyond getting therapy, which you definitely should do, consider the ramifications of having a second wife younger than your children: Is she going to get the respect she's owed in your household?

You should work on your sexual problems WITH your wife of 15 years instead of trying to saddle yourself with a child-bride.

And if you're living in the West, your plan is illegal in addition to being totally immoral and scuzzy.

2/20/2017 7:28:28 PM


Please seek help.

2/20/2017 9:18:05 PM


Your English phrasing is poor, so I'm not sure if it's your sexual desire that has gone, or that of your wife. But let me ask, would you feel comfortable if the 45-year-old neighbor wanted to marry your twelve-year-old daughter?

If the answer is yes, nothing we can say can help you now.

2/20/2017 10:38:05 PM

Shepard Solus

I advise you to seek counciling. Every kind of counciling.

2/20/2017 11:42:16 PM

Pharaoh Bastethotep

Question 6737 from Germany,

You misspelled "Guam", didn't you?

No, polygamy and child molestation are illegal and you cannot marry an underage person.

2/20/2017 11:54:22 PM

Pink Jackboots

> i would like to marry a woman who is 12 years old,

2/21/2017 1:34:31 AM


Why has your wife lost her sexual desire for you? Or is it your desire for her that is gone? If so, why? These things can be rekindled, ya know. I'm 47 and have been together with the same man for 29 years. Desire waxes and wanes, and you have to work together to keep it alive.

12-year-olds are not women, they are children.

My advice is to rekindle the desire between you and your wife.

If you live in Germany, I'd guess that you can't have sex with her until she's 15 or 16. I don't think you can marry her before then, either. Marriage is a legal contract, so it ought not to be entered into before you're of legal age.

I can't fathom being sexually attracted to a person younger than your own children, regardless of the age of the children. My oldest nephew is 19; having sex with anyone younger than that would feel like statutory rape to me.

2/21/2017 3:11:51 AM


"a woman who is 12 years old"

Or 'a little girl' as it's mostly known as.

2/21/2017 3:39:54 AM


My advice? Soldering gun to the nutsack.

2/21/2017 3:50:01 AM

Mister Spak

Better ask a German lawyer these questions before you find yourself in prison.

2/21/2017 5:41:35 AM

12 year olds are women?

I did found some who looks a little mature on the side,but they are still growing and developing physically and mentally. They won't look like women until they're 17/18.

2/21/2017 6:02:25 AM


Your wife has a talent for understatement. It would make many, many problems. Legal problems, moral/ethical problems...

What the hell is wrong with this guy? All this because he wants to get laid and doesn't want the wife anymore?

2/21/2017 7:08:53 AM


His wife should also let him know that "short eyes" tend to be on the bottom rung of the prison ladder and he'll most likely be Bubba's woman, if not dead, by the end of his first week, Azereaux.

2/21/2017 9:19:04 AM

You should get help and really only be having sex with your wife.

2/21/2017 9:23:23 AM

2/21/2017 5:19:05 PM


I automatically read that as 12 years older. I shouldn't have reread it.

2/22/2017 8:12:32 AM

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