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"You only want female virgins because they're more vulnerable and easier to manipulate"

No.

Chad wants female virgins because then they're more vulnerable and easier to manipulate.

Normie wants female virgins because then they're more vulnerable and easier to manipulate.

Vulnerability and proneness to manipulation require the presence of a higher power. In this case, both normies and Chads have more power over the virgin female because of their vaster sexual experience. When a normie or a Chad wants a virgin, then and only then there's a serious power imbalance to consider as a threat to the emotional integrity and well-being of the virgin female.

An incel doesn't have experience. He's just as naive as the female virgin when it comes to sex. They're both equal in terms of power.

Equals can't take advantage of each other. Equals can't manipulate each other.