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Brutal story.

I went out running today, and silly me I forgot this is the middle of the afternoon on a hot sunny summer day. Why the fuck did I even show my face in public? Also I've said several times on this subreddit that I'm a muscular guy. I lift. I have a great body. I have abs, good arms. Just all around good proportions, but you will see why this is futile.

Anyway, what happened was while I was running who else but a couple of girls stopped their car at a stop light. They yelled at me saying stupid things to me while I was waiting the light to go green, and the girl in the passenger said, "Hey! You! You're not hot!" and I turn my head, and she goes "Yeah you're not hot!" And then the light turned green.

I then started running back home in a fit of anger. I wanted to just fucking run into traffic. I thought to myself what the fuck is the point of being muscular if you don't have face? Or height? It's fucking over. Being muscular means you are compensating for your lack of height or lack of your face if you aren't Chad.

Just LDAR. It's completely over. To all those fucktards saying "Just lift brah!!!!!!!!!" This is the true blackpill. Women don't give a fuck about muscles.

anincelforlifelol, r/incels 20 Comments [8/11/2017 12:29:07 PM]
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Skidie

Either you lived in fucking CA in Santa Barbara(which means you have zero reasons to complain about your life) or shit didn`t happen, period.

8/11/2017 12:52:39 PM

Pharaoh Bastethotep

Cool story bro

8/11/2017 12:53:31 PM

Salami

Some people are jerks for no good reason. Hey, once a guy with a prominent MAGA hat shouted from a taxi "Get off the phone, bitch!" while I was texting my mom and tried to spit on me (he missed by a lot and got the road instead). He even looked like a stereotypical jock type. However, that's no grounds to say that all men are like him and can never be impressed ever.

But for future reference, do not engage with jerks who are shouting at you from a car. That only encourages them to insult you more, and may even provoke them to attack you. Believe me, you do not want to find out if those girls have a gun or other weapon in that car or if they know how to use said weapons. With the jerk I encountered, I just looked around to make sure he wasn't behind me or moving towards me. Then I put my head down and resumed texting my mom like he didn't exist. He just muttered "fucking bitch" and closed the window. Never encountered him again. Situation diffused peacefully.

8/11/2017 1:42:08 PM



This shit never happened. Even shallow teenage girls wouldn't do shit like that. There comment looks like something you came up with.

8/11/2017 2:01:24 PM

Tetra

I'll take Things That Never Happened for $400, Alex.

8/11/2017 2:57:17 PM



I could, sadly, believe this. I'm a bigger woman. I was out walking with my baby a few years back when some jagoff stopped his car to yell at me. "Did you steal that baby? Who'd wanna fuck you?" Said jagoff then threw a big gulp container at my stroller.

Some people are just plain cruel.

8/11/2017 3:24:37 PM

Musicalbookworm

Oh, you poor thing! You just got a very, very, very small taste of what it's like to be woman, even more so if you are not attractive. Let me get out my tiny violin and play you the mourning song of my people.

Oh, wait, haven't you shit advocated being cruel to fat women? Yes, yes, I believe you have. Fuck you! You don't even get the tiny violin serenade. You just get the clue by four to the temple.

8/11/2017 3:30:12 PM

Skidie

@Salami

To be honest you shouldn`t advocate just surrendering to the assholes like that on behalf of them potentially getting violent, I would provoke the fuck out of said shithead to come at me and then let him check if I don`t have a gun or say a length of cowchain to whoop his sorry ass till next Friday. These sociopathic fucks SHOULD be violently confronted and taken down to discourage such behaviour in the future and teach them a lesson in manners(though I full understand you were with child which obviously changes your priorities), at the very least you can take their license plate or call the cops on their ass.

8/11/2017 3:55:55 PM

Salami

@Skidie

Well, I did check to make sure that he wasn't approaching me. If he'd cornered me and tried anything, I would have definitely fought back, not to mention that my parents would have gone all Liam Neeson on his ass (well minus the killing part anyway-- it'd be more like "We will find you and we will drag you to the nearest police officer, kicking and screaming if necessary, or make you stay while I call 911") if the police didn't find him first. He didn't. He was being a jerk in a taxi that I noted was speeding up more and more as he spoke to me (I presume it was the taxi driver's way of expressing his disapproval).

However, being non-violent on its own teaches a valuable lesson in itself. Namely, that he is not so high and mighty that everybody he calls out is obligated to stop what they're doing and address him. He does not control or change me. Also that I literally do not care about what he thinks of me texting or anything else he has to say. And that his pathetic attempt at attention seeking failed-- most people calling you out from the car are just looking for a reaction or picking a fight. If you incite them and act violent, they might actually have reasons to call the cops on you and get you charged with a crime (at least in America-- incitement is a serious crime here), which isn't desirable at all. Or they whine about you online on their extremist websites, perhaps even including a picture or other identifying information. Or you end up giving them exactly what they want, which is a fight or a big reaction.

Either way, I think non-violence is best for most situations. Not all, but most. Next time, I would stealthily take a picture of the license plate and report it to the cops afterward. But I haven't been in a situation like that since.

8/11/2017 4:14:54 PM

Skidie

@Salami

Truth be told with people like that I`m not afraid to pick up the fight and I know my rights well enough to know that the inciter is the one who provokes the entire thing(as in if it`s just a call out I`ll respond in kind, if he goes after me with physical violence then this is what he gets) and as for being identified by these scum, I`ll be happy to give them all my info myself, I consider it a badge of honour to know they have someone to fear. After all I`m more of a proponent of giving them more than they bargained for, it`s probably my slavic nature. ;)

Though frankly I respect your stance just as much.

8/11/2017 4:33:32 PM

Kanna

Uh...no. Nope, that never happened as related. Did you initiate a conversation with them or did you wink, stare, or leer in their car window? THEN it might have happened.

8/11/2017 4:43:27 PM

The Crimson ghost

Liar. Just another made up story in a transparent attempt to drum up sympathy from his fellow dateless losers. While I agree that teenage girls can be needlessly cruel, that usually manifests itself in psychological warfare against other girls.

8/11/2017 7:25:50 PM

crenickator

Didn't happen. Do you even lift, bro?

8/11/2017 8:29:45 PM

Dr. Hugo Strange

Au contraire, friends, I do believe this story may have occurred - it may have a bit more lead in than the subject says, but I do not doubt it occurred.

Disdain for these "incels" is understandable, but it is definitely not going to help anything, nor is it going to further the understanding of their psychiatric condition.

I believe they assign certain tasks as "blackpill tasks", due in part to negative experiences which may result in repeat experiences being tinged and interpreting events in ways that possibly did not even happen.

As more and more events become "blackpill", they interpret the world around them more and more through the misanthropic lens they have developed for themselves.

They construct an elaborate version of the world around themselves, where everyone is shoehorned into roles assigned to them according to attractive traits and unattractive ones, based entirely on appearances. The Incel displays mild to severe sociopathy, some of it may well be inborn sociopathy and other examples may well be "induced sociopathy", caused by proximity to other bitter males in their age group and social strata - I may well remind you all that young men in their teens and even into their early to mid twenties are often hungry for self image; there is a confusion as to what and who they truly are, and so they adopt an identity based on the social group they feel most drawn towards.

The Matrix has definitely shaped their lives and experiences; in addition to the "pill" metaphor, they believe only they and their group can see the reality of the world around them, much like Neo and the Nebuchadnezzar group. This is an intoxicating view point - in saying "only I know the truth of the world", you become blind to any innate biases and psychological constructs you may carry within your psyche. Hence their utter commitment to and seeming inability to leave from these notions.

I believe if I was allowed to have one of these "Incels" sent to Arkham, I would be able to more aptly understand his condition and quantify it.

8/11/2017 8:34:38 PM

Just Along For The Ride

Um... well, personally, I find muscles a turn-off, but other things a turn-on, so there's always individual variation. As for those two women, I don't know whether this actually happened or not/the way you say it did, or not, but if it did, why let a couple of assholes ruin your day? I once walked to a festival and half-way there, a guy in the passenger side of a convertible threw a (full) liter-bottle of water at me as they sped by. It was heavy and it hit my shoulder quite hard, and my first instinct was to feel furious. But what can you really do in that situation? Salami has a point: there isn't much you can do, so just focus on your own peace of mind in that kind of situation.

I never saw them again - there were no lights immediately up ahead for them to stop at - and frankly, I'd prefer not to see anyone like that again. It's annoying, but there are assholes in the world. Focus on the awesome people, dude.

As for going out for a run - good for you! But yeah, maybe go in the evening. No worries.

@2085034: Yeah, my bullshit sensor's going off at the "you're not hot" comment. I'm not sure if I'd throw it out completely as something that definitely didn't happen, but these incels tend to get a disproportionate number of unsolicited comments about how not-up-to-par they are. My best guess is that if it did happen, they might have said something like, "Aren't you hot?" as in, "Dude, it's the middle of the day and you're out running? Surely you must be boiling alive!"

@Dr. Hugo Strange: They certainly ease themselves into the situation until they find it hard to see things another way, but that's just the point: THEY get THEMSELVES into this situation. They are therefore responsible for the fact that they're in it, and can take whatever negative reaction they damn well get. People overcome adversity all the time; it's possible, and I'm living proof of that. And I don't believe it's a psychiatric condition. I firmly believe they have talked themselves into this (or allowed others to talk them into it). Responsibility for their life situation rests firmly on their shoulders.

"I may well remind you all that young men in their teens and even into their early to mid twenties are often hungry for self image" I may well remind YOU that young women are subject to the same desire for self-image. We may be subject to different pressures and usually come to different solutions to the young men you're talking about, but we're made absolutely aware that it's our responsibility, even our fault, when we become self-conscious.


8/12/2017 3:11:35 AM

Doubting Thomas

Why do these guys always describe themselves as if they're the fucking phantom of the opera or something?

And cool story, woulda sucked if it actually happened.

8/13/2017 6:31:43 AM

Doubting Thomas

@Kanna

Uh...no. Nope, that never happened as related. Did you initiate a conversation with them or did you wink, stare, or leer in their car window? THEN it might have happened.


I'm guessing that he likely made that rude gesture with his hand like he was offering them his penis, thinking that's what works to pick up women.

8/13/2017 6:35:30 AM

RedSoda

I'm a muscular guy. I lift. I have a great body. I have abs, good arms. Just all around good proportions

So... a 500-pound morbidly obese MGTOW then

8/13/2017 2:23:46 PM

Azereaux

Congrats. You figured out that some women aren't attracted to musclemen. Now if only you'd figure out that being a self-obsessed loser that thinks "You're hot!" is a ticket into any woman's pants is a failed proposition.

"Improve as a person" doesn't mean "just lift" no matter how much you tardfucks wish it to be true.

8/14/2017 7:44:46 AM

Bimaac

I go to the gym at least twice as week and cycle around 30 KM a week as well but describing my body as "average" would be generous.

But you know what manbabies? I've still managed to have girlfriends and enjoy naked fun time with many of them.

8/22/2017 6:49:07 AM

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