MariaDesu #sexist reddit.com

Before porn, I wanted to get married one day. Now I want nothing to do with men in a sexual way because of the way I see men treat women in porn. It just makes me wonder if all men are like this, especially since most men watch porn. I hate pornography so much that it makes me feel like exploding. - The way female pornographic actresses are treated -The way sex is portrait as a form of dominance. - The cursing -The perversion of it all I HATE IT. It scarred my teenage brain, and I can never go back in time to undo that.

A lot of women find it degrading and humiliating to them. Several studies have examined the violence against women in porn and all have come up with numbers in the 80% range of porn videos that show violence in some form against women. The other frightening end of that spectrum is that fewer than 5% of these videos show women responding negatively to violence, the overwhelming response by women to violence is neutrality or pleasure.

I do not know the situations of the people involved. I have heard too many stories (both first hand and not) from too many people about actors getting the raw end of the deal. Even supposedly female friendly suicide girls really screws the women in the contracts. One example is the Suicide Girls. Supposedly feminist-friendly porn, yet still screws the girls in the contracts. In addition to money problems, I do not know if these people consented to doing this pornography and then even if they did consent to a degree, how much further were they pushed? How were they treated? And I can't get off and think all that at the same time. That would be disgusting for me

And i will never date a man that watches porn. I look at it as i would look on any other relationship dealbreaker. if he thinks so much of his freedom to consume porn, and doesnt value my thoughts and opinons on the matter, he is free to choose porn and wave goodbye to me. i want to be in a relationship with a human being that has respect and sensitivity for other human beings. I dont consider porn consumption to be an indication of a caring, sensitive individual. I would never 'put up' with anything that went against my core values to make anyone else happy.

regardless of wether it makes it virtually impossible to find a man to be with. Some things are important enough to me to take a stand on. i canot love or respect a man who wants to be all nice and caring with me, then slink off to furtively watch some obnoxious objectifying, dehumanising depictions of women as sex toys. i find that kind of duplicity to be almost schizotypal,. a split between the mans brain where he displays caring, equanimitous behaviour to a partner, then shuts that off to 'enjoy' watching depictions of other women as toys, to be used for sexual gratification. I find that ability to split his mind, quite disturbing. And creepy in the extreme.

I do believe that most men, not all, in this world, hate women. Like probably 70% of the population. It really scares me, that's why I want to be alone instead and never be with one. Men around the world (mostly in Africa, Asia and the Middle East) dominate women, they rape them and stone them to death, mutilate their bodies. Women are not even allowed o go school in some parts of the world, not allowed to drive, vote, speak up but just be slaves for men. It may not be in developed countries but globally, I do believe most men hate women.

Parents would abort female babies because they are unwanted, Not that many women are in politics, business, science, engineering, it's mostly men. You could say men are better and intelligent than women,thanks for the discouragement and stuff but it's not scientifically proven men are more smarter than women. Even on the Internet almost every man I've met thinks "women" + "kitchen." Even after this, I think most of them will call me cunt, slut, bitch.?

My views on porn have been posted elsewhere,.its a frustrating subject, because if someone is pro porn, then they will be entrenched in that position, no matter what points you endevour to show them.

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