There is a 7/10 girl a few years older than me (26) that works at one of the places where I conduct my side hustle (not a drug dealer or anything illegal but can't go into too much detail). Although no Chad, I'm one of the more attractive guys that frequents this place and even though I don't flaunt money or expensive items, she would still see me dealing with relatively large sums of cash. I flirt with her sometimes when we happen to talk, but have never expressed interest in taking it any further.

This afternoon I got a text from a number I didn't recognise. It was this chick. I didn't give her my number, so she must have got it off her work's computer system. "Hey, I just wanna say, if you are ever in her gym near my apartment and want company I could join you. Maybe I'll learn something new from you hehe ;)". The old me would already be organising which night to fuck her but all my MGTOW knowledge rose to the surface and helped me make the sensible decision to avoid this chick.

I don't want to validate her ego. I don't want to expose myself to STDs or pregnancy, especially with someone approaching the wall. I don't want to have to deal with any post-sex bullshit. I don't want to shit where I snack and risk having to go elsewhere to hustle. I politely told her I don't go to that gym anymore and that was the end of the conversation. It feels great to have my sex drive under control and be able to make rational decisions when it comes to women. Monk mode for life.