I believe that many of the gays are not born that way. In fact, it is not proven at all genetically. I believe it happens around the age of puberty when boys and girls are more separated than ever before. When forming friendships, the boy that will turn out gay will end up being weak and feminine and having female friends. He will start to identify more with girls, yet may or may not display outward effeminate behavior. During puberty everything happens so fast as hormones as rushing and raging. This is where demonic forces come in and confuse people into same sex attraction.

When I was at school, I had very few friends male or female. I noticed at puberty I was attracted to girls immediately (and had been before). But I was worried I may be a gay, because I noticed other guys too. But once I made friends with boys my own age, all of the same sex desire went completely away. Then it dawned on me, I wasn't a gay. I was just longing for male friendship. This is what young men/boys need. Unfortunately, they don't have many people to talk to, and when they do, these days, they will most likely to be urged to "come out" as gay- embrace their "sexuality". When it was never real to start with. It's a combination of a melancholic/sensitive personality type, with isolation from same sex role models.