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Am I a rapist?

Earlier this year I went back to a city I used to live and work in in my early twenties. I hung out with my old friends and went to some of the bars we used to go to. Whilst I was in one of these bars I bumped into a girl that I had history with and suddenly, the moment I saw her, I remembered that by #MeToo standards I had probably raped her. She didn't seem mad or bring it up or anything, we actually talked all night and had a cool time. She had been hot before but she's even hotter now. She's put on weight in a good way, I've put on weight in a bad way, so unfortunately nothing happened.

Anyway this is what happened with her in the old days when I lived in that city.

Her and I worked for the same company but in different branches. The young people from all the (4) branches in the city used to generally get together and have a good time (get hammered) a lot. There was a lot of shenanigans. Anyway, she developed a reputation for getting blackout drunk and shagging random guys, including one of my best friends. It was a very, VERY well deserved reputation. She also told everyone that she was in love with me and would frequently fling herself at me. If we were in a club she would basically molest me, if I got with another girl she would cry, even though we had no past at that time and actually she didn't know me well at all. At the time I was in much better shape than I am now and I was not averse to the odd bit of rumpy-pumpy so people who knew me and her casually had no idea why I wouldn't shag this girl, as she was hot. Everyone that knew her well knew exactly why I wouldn't. She was the village bike.

Anyway one night we were all out, she was trying to get with me as usual, and the girl I had hoped was going to join us cancelled. So I thought, 'fuck it' and took the drunk girl who was apparently in love with me home. We got back to my apartment and we started shagging. She was incredibly drunk and went to sleep half way through. I continued anyway.

I don't feel guilty as I know she was super keen on me, tried to shag me constantly and slept like a starfish, taking up all of the bed.

When I saw her earlier this year she looked even hotter than before (and I have to admit she was hot before, she just repulsed me because of her behaviour) and had calmed down a lot, everyone says she is like a different person. Cruelly, I'm fat and balding now and shes no longer interested.


Am I a rapist?

mate, Kiwi Farms 10 Comments [8/9/2018 1:49:42 PM]
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Man Called True

You're definitely not a good person, at least.

8/9/2018 6:56:39 PM

Well, at least nobody is going to be throwing themselves at you now, you fucking fatass.

The ugliness inside matches the ugliness outside. Its how things most often end up working.

8/10/2018 1:48:15 AM


I wouldn't say you're a rapist, but I also wouldn't say you're a nice person.

Continuously spurning someone's sober advances because she's "the village bike" and then finally having sex with her while she's literally blackout drunk and can't remember or feel anything, and gets absolutely nothing from the interaction herself, is a decidedly asshole move.

8/10/2018 2:56:48 AM


If she was so intoxicated that she passed out halfway through, then yeah, you are.

8/10/2018 4:53:50 AM


Sex with a person, man or woman, too drunk to consent is rape. That's not the #metoo standard :eye roll: it's the fucking law and has been for a long time. I doubt that you have anything to worry about legally though as she seems unlikely to press charges. Why would you even continue to have sex with someone who passed out?

8/10/2018 6:19:37 AM

Doubting Thomas

I wouldn't necessarily call it rape, but you definitely took advantage of a girl who likely had a drinking and emotional problem if she's getting blackout drunk and having sex with all the guys. Hope you used a condom. But why would it even be enjoyable to have sex with someone who passed out? I like sex to be a two-way street, with a willing and eager partner. Continuing to have sex with a girl who passed out is just using her body to masturbate.

8/10/2018 8:17:58 AM


Naah, a douchebag though, definitely.

8/10/2018 9:48:43 AM


So uh if me and a chick are both drunk as fuck, and we fuck until we both pass out, does this mean we raped each other?

Just asking - I am quite involved in the night club scene.

8/11/2018 10:48:37 PM

You did something you shouldn't have done even if every detail you gave about her consent is true.

8/11/2018 11:12:21 PM

practical god

If all you say about her efforts to catch every pokemon in the village in general and her keenness on you in particular is true, then no, you're not a rapist, just a disappointing lay with poor judgment and flimsy standards.

8/14/2018 11:32:07 AM

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