So if a child stops breathing and a parent decides that it's the lords will or whatever the reason is, it's okay for them to stand by and take no action?

Of course it isn't OK. I don't know anybody who wouldn't condemn that. As an issue of rights, I think it's a violation of a parent's right as an individual to be criminally prosecuted for failing to help someone. But most parents aren't going to watch their children choke to death. I think we're really grasping at improbable hypotheticals, here.