I find it almost amusing if it weren't so sad that women want to keep their maiden names instead of taking on their husband's names when they marry. Some say that they "lose their identity" by taking on their husbands name. Women see it as "giving up" their maiden name. Let's face it. Us women will always have the name of a man. Either our fathers name or our husbands name. God meant it like that. A woman is under the protection and authority of her father until marriage. Her last name is an indicator of that. When she gets married her last name changes to show the new protection and authority in her life. I don't understand why women are so eager to keep their father's name...either way it's a man's name.
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Well, on the part of the father's name, sons get that, too, so it's nonpartisan in its overbearing nature.
OMG! Take a look at that website; it's the silliest damn thing I ever saw - complete with pictures of white castles where, presumably, Rapunsel spends her time locked up in a tower, growing her hair, and waiting for the one True prince to liberate her into a life of domestic drudgery. Vomitrosious!
It's true that women's names are just those of some man in her life, but I don't believe "God meant it like that." It's not as if we've had the same naming practices for the past 6,000 years in all cultures.
Because she's used to it? And you can't figure that out? Are you completely devoid of empathy and imagination? Its. Not. That. Hard.
I've lived in places where, legally, my mother's maiden name *was* my official last name. Thats how they do it.
389189: so what about other cultures who have different naming practices?
Why, they're wrong and of the devil of course!
She's right technically, but it doesn't have to mean you're under anyone's authority but your own. What I can't stand are biddies who drop their FIRST name (on checks, etc.) and just go by Mrs. husband's last name. >:(
In Spain, we don't have maiden name. And honestly, if we don't have identity, according to your stupid reasoning, why bother talking about a maidenhood that it's like any other good?, a computer, for example?. It's under the protection of a man..............it's a fucking social convention.
So, if in Christianity women don't have life of their own, why do you bother addressing them?, why don't you address their husbands instead?, or fathers?
However did women live up to YOUR standard in the days before surnames? BTW, they became common in Europe about the 1400s.
Have a look at how they do it in Icelnad!
Ignorant cow.
It's not unherad of in Iceland for a woman's surname to be a combination of the mother's first name plus the matrinomic descriptive "dottir". For example, If Hilda had a daughter named Greta it would not be odd for Greta's last name to be Hildasdottir. Though admittedly most last names just use the father's first name and the patronomial "-dottir" or "-sen".
"What if two gay men marry each other? Who's name do they take?"
One of the biggest reasons God hates gay marriages is that it nullifies the eternal reality of Patriarchal Nomenclature, as you see by this very thread.
STFU Mrs W.
How many times must we tell you uppity females: your place is in the home "home-making".
If you have enough time to preach to others you're stealing from your husband - you should find things to do, and certainly not use the debbil's EVIL www
Try telling that to my mother! She didn't change her name when she got married - well, technically, the register made her change it, but she changed it right back. Then, when I was born, I was given her surname. My dad's actually considering changing HIS name to ours. My parents would be totally cool if I were to change my name to my dad's or to double-barrel it.
It gets better: WE'RE ALL CHRISTIANS!
Habsburgs called, they sound pretty pissed off, something about pragmacy, their great grandma Theresa or somesuch, didn't understand them, really...
My husband took my name when we married. Does that mean that he's now under my protection and authority? Sweet! Or, ya know, not. He can protect himself and have authority over himself, just like I can.
His "maiden" name was a fairly generic one, while mine is unique to my family. So he went from being one of five with the same first and last name in our hometown alone (and hundreds, maybe even thousands, in Sweden), to being the only one with that first and last name in the whole of Sweden.
Confused?
So were we! You can find all of this, and more, on Fundies Say the Darndest Things!
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