If you made something, for example a chair, would you allow the chair to question you why you created it, and why you sit on it, coz it tells you he doesnt enjoy being sat on.
Would you not allow your children to question you? Chairs are not sentient beings they don't have the capacity to reason or to question, children do, should they be disallowed from questioning you for any reason?
The chair is like you, the maker is God.
Your analogy is flawed because, by your belief, your "god" supposedly created humanity with free will and the ability to choose, an ability nonsentient inanimate objects do not share.
If the chair you made cant be used, what will you do with it? You throw it right. or burn it, to at least give heat.
So sentient life, such as your children, should be cast off or destroyed simply based on it's value or service to it's creator?
so be thankful God doesnt throw you yet,
Why? Your religion tells me that I have free will to choose my own path in life. Why would your "god" destroy or discard me for using the very free will he supposedly provided me to choose a path that doesn't entail subservience to it?
He loves His' creations
Forcing his creations to suffer and be tortured for an eternity for finite infractions, infractions that have harmed no one, is not "love" in any sense of the word, but rather the petty and vindictive tantrums of histronic, spoiled, and self centered thug.
To give humanity the will to choose from a myriad of possibilities and then punishing them for not choosing the right one, without even a hint as to which path is the right one, is not an act of love, it's an act of base cruelty.
and gives them time to realise their purpose
But he doesn't bother helping them to realize their purpose, or give them any reason to believe he actually exists or to which of the thousands of religions is the one that will allow them to escape an eternity of undeserved torture.
which is to love and serve Him.
If your "god" only wanted sycophants slaves, or mindless worship-bots then why give them free will? Why allow them any choice if there is but one single purpose for every person? Creating sentient beings with the ability to choose and then punishing them, eternally nonetheless, for using that ability to do something other than the sole acceptable choice, which is never made know in unambigous and uncertain terms, is not only pointless, it's sadistic.