In the natural scheme of things, healthy men are sexually active when called upon for action. Women have a cycle where they are interested in sex when the time is “right”. That right time is when she is healthy and willing to bear children. A pregnant female is not interested in any more sex, nor should she be having sex, she is already pregnant. Do you understand?
Once a female has given birth, she needs to breast feed her little one for some 2 years and stick close to her baby. At this time there is no desire for children. And if there is no desire for children, no sex is desired...
Since a woman may only be interested in sex every 2 to 3 years it makes no sense for a man to with hold his sexuality in those 2 to 3 years where a woman is not sexually available, nor should it make sense to rush a woman and have additional children when she is not healthy nor ready yet. So it was and still is natural for men to have multiple wives.
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So utterly and completely wrong. Has this ignorant idiot ever talked to a woman? Or slept with one? I doubt it.
But he wants multiple wives. Young girls probably. He's a complete arse, and I'd prefer it if he died a virgin. The sooner the better.
fergus
"Once a female has given birth, she needs to breast feed her little one for some 2 years"
Wait what? I doubt any sane woman would breastfeed her child till they're two.
Edit: I've heard of women who breastfeed the child into school but damn that can't be normal. It should be cut off at least by 1 right?
we get on the pill and have IUDs put into our bodies so our husbands can rape us until he's ready to have kids?
@Godless heathen: many women do, though i won't be one of them.
1. Not particularly. Women, like men do want to get their rocks off regularly. Quite a few pregnant women have sex... My email account is full of offers...
2. What sort of logic and science do you use to come up with this? It seems to me that your words are somehow superior to my medical knowledge... That women don't want to have babies after the first is logic at this point since most are not baby making machines but actual humans.
3. Sure. You can have as many wives/husbands as you want as long as they are willing participants and indeed know of each other. Does not "bother" me. What bothers me is that you are some sort of ass clown who treats women as nothing more than baby making devices for your own pleasure.
Who here thinks the "good" samaritan is not going to get laid ever.
You are joking, right? I was never randier than I was when I was pregnant. I am jumping my hubby's bones every chance I get.
That is the kind of bullshit we get from male fundies who think they know how women functions.
But hell, don't let facts ruin or hide the issue that you want to fuck as many women as you can (which my bet is Zero).
His mistake here is assuming or interpreting that having sex for fun rather than procreation is a sin, when it really isn't.
I'd like to know where the hell people like him get that from.
A pregnant female is not interested in any more sex, nor should she be having sex, she is already pregnant. Do you understand?
In my experience pregnant women are, if anything, even more horny. So... no, I don't understand.
ObFuturama ("Put your head on my shoulder"):
Fry: "I'm not a one-woman man, Leela."
Bloody hell, I really didn't see that last sentence coming.
Nice reasoning there, goodsamaritan55.
So if a woman is only interested in sex every two to three years, and then only for a short time (apparently), it's going to take more than just a few wives to keep one man 'happy'. I mean, we have to be talking at least twenty or so ...
Can someone explain this logic to that 'quiver' couple who have popped out a new 'arrow' every 9.5 months on schedule for the last 16 years or so.
Well, that's odd, because my sister fell pregnant with her third child before her second one turned two.
No, I am not going to ask her about her sex drive.
Yes, that would explain why so many children are a mere 12-18 months apart in age. Or, maybe not.
If I were only interested in sex every two to three years, I'd kill myself and end my misery and set my husband free.
This is just stupidity and ignorance. Someone has a wife who won't give him any.
I don't know that it is necessarily fundie though. Maybe from a fundie site?
Bullshit, bullshit, and bullshit. Pregnant women, because of unbalanced hormones, can often want much much more sex than they did before they were pregnant.
ditto on the hormonal surge during pregnacy and also what Ltap wrote.
this guy mentions that "Top grade men" are in demand. Top Grade man(author of article-sarcasm on my part) may have misunderstood his woman about the lack of desire during pregnacy. Maybe she faked it because she wanted a respite from his slobbering 30 second performance. That's right Top Grade.....you suck in bed.
"Since a woman may only be interested in sex every 2 to 3 years..."
Seriously? That would pretty much shut down the reproductive department.
I bet whatzis here is thinking about Solomon's wives and concubines...at the rate of one per night, it would have taken him 2 or 3 years....
Ok, I will believe this on one condition. You tell me how, given this belief, my daughters were born 14 months apart from each other.
More than one wife, huh? You go for it, Sparky, and a whole lot of luck to ya. You're going to need it.
A pregnant female is not interested in any more sex
Strike one.
Once a female has given birth, she needs to breast feed her little one for some 2 years and stick close to her baby. At this time ... no sex is desired.
Strike two. (And a creepy strike at that ...)
a woman may only be interested in sex every 2 to 3 years
STRUCK 'IM OUT!
Yes, who cares about your wife's feelings? You need to get laid 24/7, darn it, and if your wife's no longer available because she's pregnant, you can find yourself a nice little prostitute to bang while you wait! Who cares about fidelity? You're a man, you have needs, and nothing can stand in your way!
Your selfishness and complete disregard for your wife's happiness almost topples your vast stupidity. Please die in a fire.
Not interested in sex when pregnant?
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
I had it right up until the day I went into labor. But then I had a hot young stud for a husband. Maybe what this fundaloon faced was a wife using an excuse--any excuse--not to have him touch her ever again. And who could blame her?
And not interested in sex after birth for 2-3 years? Man, that must come as a surprise to the many friends I had who got pregnant anywhere from 3-6 months after giving birth (breastfeeding moms, no less).
This guy is a total moron about women. I stand by my assertion that the wife fed him a line of b.s. to avoid his ineptitude in bed.
Sexual desire remains in pregnancy and while breast feeding as well. Where do you get your information?
BTW, great job trying to justify sleeping around with a kid in the cradle. Classy move!
"And if there is no desire for children, no sex is desired..."
Ha! You clearly know nothing about it.
If women only want sex for breeding, I think it would be fair that men only got horny when they smell that their wife is horny.
So, double standars much, gs55?
1. You know nothing of women, if your 'wife' (if such a creature exists) won't have sex with you, it's probably you. Do you understand?
2. Breast feeding for 2 years is a little long, but it's not like the kids glued to the tit for those two years. The wife can get some sex while the child is sleeping. Well as long as she isn't spending that time cooking and cleaning for some asshat.
3. If a woman is only interested in sex every 2-3 years, and you want it more, I guess that's a good argument for premarital marriage.
1. Men's and Women's sex drives are equal. I know your brain is 400 years behind with modern science but work with me here.
So ah, why do I see ads from pregnant women online looking for someone to share the bed, since their partners clearly won't bother with them? And what about all the guys who find pregnant women hot and offer to satisfy them if their husbands/boyfriends aren't up for it?
1) Soooo...what about the young men who can't find a wife, because a handful of men are married to all the women in the community?
2) You've apparently never actually spoken with a woman, much less had sex with one, or you'd understand that the female sex drive doesn't work that way. Pregnant women will use you up and pick their teeth with what's left of you.
3) You're a moron.
You don't know any real women, do you? We are interested when we are interested; it differs from woman to woman, just as it does from man to man. I know people who are NOT willing to bear children, and they are still interested. Some women are MORE interested when they are pregnant; no contraception needed. If she's prone to miscarry, she should not have sex in the beginning.
TWO years of breastfeeding? What country do you live in, where people get two years of maternity leave? It's harder to get pregnant while breastfeeding, so many take the opportunity to not use contraception. Sex IS desired.
If the woman should only have sex every two or three years, the man can abstain as well. Give and take, ya know, in sickness and in health.
If you have multiple wives, you have multiple responsibilities;; you have to provide for all of them and their children, and care for them all equally. Are you up for that, boyo?
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