How does your theory that feminists find it empowering to fuck alphas make any sense?

From the feminist viewpoint, it's okay for women to fuck alphas, as long as they're ultimately in control of the alphas. For example, women may be attracted to bad boys who slap them around, but ultimately the female judge issues a restraining order, so feminists win (in theory). In reality, the bad boy just goes and fucks another broad; he doesn't give a shit about any particular broad whom he's not allowed to have contact with anymore. It's the "nice guys" who get attached to particular women and want to be loyal and faithful to them, who actually suffer from female dominance.
Likewise, it's okay for women to be dependent on men for their food, clothing, shelter, etc. as long as it's in the form of men paying welfare to a government ruled by feminists, which then redistributes the wealth to single moms who dumped the boyfriends/husbands/whatever who otherwise would've demanded something (sex, chores, etc.) in exchange for paying their way.