I feel the same. I’m an obese woman… and I’d prefer being thin. Fat people should not be insulted for their condition. That said, it’s unhealthy to be horribly obese. If it interferes with one’s health or movement, it’s best to try to lose some fat.
That said, no one should be shamed or discriminated over it and if some are happy the way they are, respect that.
Some folks even have a fetish for really huge people. It’s not my bag (although ‘mildly chubby’ is no problem for me).
Many of these machosphere guys are chunkalicious, yet they never call each other “Land Whales”.
I confess that I find the fat jokes in Weird Al songs hilarious. I also feel that I personally have “Fat Joke Privileges” … although I’ll only say anything insulting to fat people who are awful and who obsess over other’s looks… like the Orangeguy, who criticizes women for chubbing-out despite being a repulsive, orange fatso, himself.