You are so cute, Cath!!! Strain away!! That is really right to the main issue -who are we seeking approval or attention from. I am constantly amazed at the people who say we don’t “need” to dress differently in order to please God – It makes me want to ask them, “Then who are you dressing to please???” Does a woman need to wear 7 rings on her fingers? Does she NEED lipstick? Does she need to wear blue jeans? Not hardly. (Blue jeans were developed to be strong enough to withstand the harsh conditions of goldminers. The lives of most modern women is far from harsh. :-))