Female sex drive- The Alpha v Beta perspective
Chad's perspective:
"Women love sex just as much as men, in fact even more than men."
Average Joe and Incel Larry perspective:
"Females don't like sex or particularly find men attractive. They only have sex to fulfil an ulterior motive like: financial security, increasing their status or to have kids."
Chad's have women openly show sexual attraction or at least easily receptive to their advances along with being fully engaging and active during sex.
Joe's and Larry's are met with a different animal. All they hear is:
• women complain about being hit on in the streets, clubs and bars and how they wish to be left alone.
• Complain about how "creeps" stare at them from a distance.
• Complain that "nice guys" ( aka male friend who developed feelings after getting to know her or guy wanting to be in a relationship but build a solid foundation (friendship) first), only after sex.
• Complain that they're tired of men wanting just sex and sex isn't that important.
• Women who put their boyfriends or husbands in a deadbedroom situation.
-Most importantly they never show overt attraction to men.
For the longest time I've always had the Beta perspective, I didn't know many Chads or what their lives were like so I assumed this was the case for all men especially when I talked about it with other men and they shared my sentiments. It's only in the last few years that I realised their is a small echelon of men that women generally feel sexual attraction too and it makes me depressed that I'll never be one of them.
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Or.. now hear me out.. women are complex human beings with wants and needs that change with how they feel and they search out things to fulfill those needs the same way men do. Which is to say.. whichever method is easiest. They also happen to be self aware and are capable of considering the pros and cons of most given situations and relationships. (unless a lot of booze or drugs are involved, then all bets are off in terms of rationality.)
Average Joe and Larry have Chad's perspective, too, you boob!
Also; Not wanting to be sexually-harassed/assaulted or reduced to a life support system for certain erogenous body-parts does NOT mean they hate sex.
Would YOU like being sexually-harassed/assaulted/cat-called by some freak that you don't care for? NO? WELL?! NOW YOU KNOW HER PERSPECTIVE!
CONSENT! INFORMED CONSENT! HOW HARD IS THAT FOR YOU AND YOUR ILK TO COMPREHEND?!
Say it with me again manbabies; "Average Joe's" do well with women as well because they aren't shallow women-hating douchebags like you "incels". Unfortunately, you dismiss them as being "cucked beta orbiters" because their girlfriends and wives aren't, "a solid 7 to 10".
>Complain about how "creeps" stare at them from a distance.
Not recognizing the irony in the fact that r/incels is filled with tales of guys stalking women who are causing their "oneitis". Oops, silly me; self-awareness doesn't tend to be these dipshits strong suit.
>Complain that they're tired of men wanting just sex and sex isn't that important.
Again, don't think I need to point out the irony in this being posted by someone who's a part of a group of crybaby professional victims who are obsessed with sex.
>Complain that "nice guys" ( aka male friend who developed feelings after getting to know her or guy wanting to be in a relationship but build a solid foundation (friendship) first), only after sex.
Could have something to do with the fact that most of the time, "Nice Guys"TM are using superficial kindness to try to get her into the sack and are no less manipulative then the "abusive Chads" you jerks constantly whine that women only date. And you know what? If a guy really is "nice" and not an entitled asshole like you "incels", then he'll graciously accept the fact that she isn't interested, be heartbroken but ultimately move on.
...so you'll keep whining on line and calling yourself names, and that'll make you feel better, right? Get a hobby. Get a psychologist, and I don't care if your psychologist is your hobby. But for goodness sake STOP referring to Incels and Chads and Stacies and dontcryimalreadydead. You're causing a depression so large that Wall Street is worried and the weather guys are forecasting tornados, but the person you're hurting the most is yourself.
Respectfully Kanna, I wouldn't be surprised to find out that this little douchenozzle is an edgelord high school student, hence the "edgy" SN he has.
If he's any older than 21, he needs to grow the fuck up.
>Hell I knew people in high school when I attended in mid to late 90s more mature than these fuck wits so I'd say even if he's edgy high schooler, he needs to grow up
I know a guy who's in his early 40's and has a teenage kid who routinely posts whiny, "friend zoned nice guy" crap and "angsty" lyrics as status updates.
StoneSpiral has the right idea. Women are attracted to men for many reasons. I know one guy who's confident, ripped, socially well liked and respected...and is a virgin at 25. He's just had no luck with women.
I know another guy who's morbidly obese, is a complete asshole, is hated by basically all his peers, but has had a girlfriend who's a genuinely sweet and cute girl for the past 3 years.
This one in particular strikes me as an angsty teen. Hopefully he graduates, sees the world outside of his high school, and realizes how dumb he was as a kid.
Female sex-drive, female perspective
Some women like sex a lot, some like it ok, some don’t like it that much and some don’t like it at all.
Stupid “incels”; women usually want to make their own money and have a status of their own, not depend on someone else for sustenance. Most women want to have kids with someone they think will be a good and present father.
Chads only exist in the mind of “Incels”. Being fully engaging and active during sex is pretty crucial for sexual satisfaction, stupid.
Yes, we complain about irritating catcalls and buffoonish come-on tactics in the street.
Staring at people you don’t know is pretty creepy.
Nice guys are people who are nice without ulterior motive. If you’re only “nice” to get sex, then you’re not nice.
Sex is best when it’s accompanied with love and affection. Just sex can feel a bit shallow, and many women want to get to know someone before having sex.
What’s a deadbedroom situation? Not having sex due to being tired for lack of sleep during the years with small children? Well, if you take the night vigil and make sure that she’s getting some alone time every week, you will probably see some real improvement.
No, women are often rather subtle. Showing too overt attraction often causes you to be called a slut, ya know.
Women generally feel sexual attraction to people who see them as individuals.
>Stupid “incels”; women usually want to make their own money and have a status of their own, not depend on someone else for sustenance. Most women want to have kids with someone they think will be a good and present father.
I'd love to know what dimension these dipshits live it that they somehow think this is still the 50's.
Then again, these assholes think that feminism is the reason they can't get a girlfriend so it's not much wonder they long for a time before women's liberation.
>Chads only exist in the mind of “Incels”. Being fully engaging and active during sex is pretty crucial for sexual satisfaction, stupid.
I keep saying that "Chad" is a boogeyman/strawman who only exists in "incels" minds. I also always say that there's a reason why "Stacey" goes for "Chad"; she's a douchebag too. And if "incels" would take her down off the pedestal they have her on because she's "hot", they would realize this too. Let's face it; at the end of the day, "incels" and "Nice Guys"TM are just as shallow as they always whine women are.
Ignoring that they have nothing in common with these gym rat party girls they alternately lust after and despise.
If what I've seen on posted from Yik Yak and on some colleges' and universities' social pages is any indication, a lot of guy's cling to this bullshit well into their 20's, 2026268.
Nothing like proving the whole, "I deserve a trophy just for showing up!" stereotype about millennials. Or in this case, "I deserve a girlfriend just because I have a penis!"
@Swede :
"Chads" definitely exist, but they're generally kind of opposite-world Incels. People who see themselves as attractive regardless of whether or not it's true, project "confidence" (actually arrogance), brag about bizarre and kind of embarrassing accomplishments like drinking an entire fifth of Smirnoff, and claim to have A LOT more sex than seems realistic for someone with no interpersonal skills. They're just the flip side of the same coin this guy is on.
The Female Flying Drive:
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Gen. Chuck Yeager (USAF, Ret) encourages women to enter the field of Aeronautics.
As he has The Right Stuff - as does his test pilot colleague Jacqueline Cochran - he's higher than Alpha.
Thus from his perspective, your entire use of the Greek alphabet is as fucked up as the Greek economy right now.
If he can regard Jacqueline as an equal - and he's married - what have you got to complain about, don'tcryformeargentina?
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