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"Every Woman Need Men" - IMU Medical Student Gets Called Out For His Sexist FB Comment

A medical student at the International Medical University of Malaysia (IMU) is being called out by outraged netizens for his sexist and insensitive comment on a news report about artist Emily Kong, who was killed in an accident on Saturday, 9 March

29-year-old Emily Kong, a singer and actress, was killed after her car crashed into a tree in front of the NSK Trade City Kuchai Lama at 3.20am, 9 March.

After the news about her fatal accident was posted online by The Star on its Facebook page, the IMU medical student joined others in offering his condolences.

He posted that Emily could have avoided the accident had she not left the pub alone. The Star's report has no mention of Emily being in a pub prior to the accident.

In his comment, the IMU medical student suggested that the Malaysian artist died because she thought she could do everything on her own and be independent.

"Condolences.. I hope all the girls learn a good lesson now.. Never leave the pub without a guy.. Man and woman work together.. We offer you a safe drive home and you give us makeout or sex.. I mean girls like sex too right.. This is what happens when women think they can do everything on their own and be independent.. Every woman need men," read the IMU medical student's comment, which he has now deleted.

A screenshot of his since-deleted comment has gone viral:
However, prior to deleting his comment, the man who is studying to become a doctor, stood his grounds, saying women are bad drivers
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(Transcript:
I stand by my comment.. It is a solution to prevent further accidents like this.. I offered my condolences and a solution to prevent accidents like this from happening to others.. i did not speculate on the character of the person or whether the person was drunk/high unlike others who commented.. Women are bad drivers fullstop.. They need men to drive them or accompany them when they drive.. I stand by comment 100%..)

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The man has since said that he is formally retracting his comment in the post and that he has already removed it. "I apologise to women in general and whomever else who feels offended for whatever reason," the IMU student posted in his apology late last night.

However, he went on to add that his comment was about people being in an open relationship and how partners going with others is normal.

"To clarify, anybody who has or is in an open relationship would understand that this is a normal happening. We go out at night with a special person for drinking and we drop them home safely. We send them home. We protect them.

"And if they invite us to their place we go and be with them. We kiss, we bond and we have sex. Our role is to protect them. In return, they give us a good surprise.

"I forgive those who made this viral despite me removing the comments. I forgive all the hate shown towards me or my acquaintance. I forgive all the vulgar messages I received. And because I forgive, I have not been affected by this at all.

"Your hatred has not got to me. I also forgive those instigating by misrepresenting the comments to get more likes. This is a social media disease.

"Let me be the bigger man here and not stoop to profanity or low level of language."

Various Malaysian politicians #fundie says.com

In June, Malaysian gymnast Farah Ann Abdul Hadi's gold medal win at the SEA games was marred when she was heavily criticised and for showing her "aurat" [intimate parts] and "the shape of her vagina" in her leotard
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Then, earlier this month, the local Twitter community erupted into a heated debate over cycling duo Muhammad Afiq and Hafiz Sufian's skintight shorts when they won a gold medal at the Japan Para Cycling Cup 2015
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Today, 16 November, several opposition lawmakers have voiced their concerns over "sexy" sports attire in Parliament, especially directing it at Minister of Youth and Sports Khairy Jamaluddin

The issue was initially raised by PKR's Lumut MP Mohd Imran Abdul Hamid, who warned that provocative attire worn by female athletes could cause "stimulation" and lead to "adultery"

"The participants wear sexy, arousing clothes and mix freely (both sexes)," Mohd Imran said.

“Because of the interaction where we see sexy clothing that could cause stimulation, we fear that it could lead to *zina (adultery/fornication)."

"You may score marks on the international sports arena but you will not score marks in the afterlife," he added.


PAS' Siti Zailah Muhd Yusoff then asked if Putrajaya has a syariah-compliant policy on female Muslim athletes' clothing, stressing that it is necessary if the government means to keep to its implementation of the syariah index

"The female athletes should comply with syariah dressing code. To what extent has the ministry implemented this?" the Rantau Panjang MP asked during the debate.

"We should have guidelines and implement them with regard to athletes' attire," she added.

Nik Abduh Nik Aziz (PAS-Pasir Mas) joined in the chorus when he urged Khairy to be brave in implementing syariah-compliant outfits for at least two or three categories.


In response to Siti Zailah's query, Khairy said that there are no such guidelines in place and athletes are free to choose what to wear as long as their attire adheres to the sport governing bodies' rules and regulations

"As long as it does not contravene the federal sport bodies (regulations), we allow them to modify their attire (to their needs). We leave it to them," he said.


Furthermore, Khairy pointed out that there has been no case or proof that the attire worn by national athletes in mass sporting events has led to "adultery"

“We take note of the observation, but so far there has not been any case or proof to show that adultery happens at these programmes,” he told Parliament when winding up debate points on Budget 2016.

Khairy also said that the national women's netball team had changed their outfits to be less revealing.