I sympathize with anyone who is married to an abusive spouse. I am not condoning any type of marital abuse, God forbid. I have heard plenty of horror stories myself. But where does a married person draw the line? What is considered “abuse?” How much abuse justifies the so-called “breaking point” to justify a divorce? I knew a kind man whom I worked with for 4 years, in the late 1980's, who said that he never abused his wife during their 6 year marriage. He said that he raised his voice just one time at her, and she was all it took for her to divorce him! I have heard bitter women suggest that married women file for divorce for name calling. I am not defending those type of things, but for someone who wants out of a marriage, they can demonize their spouse for anything.
I keep hearing angry women demonize husbands for looking at smut on the internet, or in girly magazines; but our American government sanctions these very evils. What hypocrisy! I heard a woman say, who divorced her husband, that he looked at smut (I don't want to use the word to avoid being censored). She was attempting to justify her decision to divorce, based on something that is perfectly legal in America (which is shameful and needs to be harshly dealt with and criminalized). I wish the U.S. government would shut down every smutty website, every sensual music video, every filthy magazine, hellish H.B.O. movies, and Hollywood (who all promote that garbage).
Kindly said, American women today are angry, bitter and empowered by the courts! It is open season on men these days. Women are ready to divorce if they don't get the treatment they think they deserve! So what they do is magnify extreme cases of abuse in order to promote their agenda. We have seen this happen with abortion ever since Roe vs. Wade, hearing about the elusive woman with a coat-hanger in some back alley. Yet, not one such incident has ever been medically documented. Yet, abortionists use such extreme and bizarre fallacious stories to justify keeping abortion legal. Abortion is first-degree premeditated murder!