Anonymous #sexist

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How can you talk about lesbians without talking about the statistically highest rates of intimate partner violence out of literally any pairing? The lowest rates are in m/m pairings, m/f is in the middle, and f/f have the highest rates of violence and abuse.

Frankly, I'm amazed it took this long in the thread to talk about lesbian bed death.

In the end homosexuality of any kind shouldn't be promoted by a civilization because it does not reinforce the family unit. A stable, functional society absolutely depends on the stability and quality of the family unit in order to survive. Families are about raising children.

I don't think it's the main force destroying society, but it's one of the cuts where the blood loss is coming from. There's not even any ill will here, it's just a basic sociological analysis. Conserving and building on the civilizational assets we all collectively own is critical for long term success.

All dyke or gay shipping in the fandom is trash.

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In the end homosexuality of any kind shouldn't be promoted

You just did by claiming m/m pairings have lower rates of violence than m/f pairings.

The lowest rates are in m/m pairings, m/f is in the middle, and f/f have the highest rates of violence and abuse.

Is that even true?

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Which is why we hear so much about lesbian women being killed by partners or ex-partners, and why there’s such a need for women’s shelters for lesbians, right? Oh, yeah; we don’t and there isn’t.

I’d guess it’s quite the opposite; lowest rate in f/f, middle in f/m and the most in m/m, but as I said, that’s my guess.

Lesbian bed death? Huh?

Lesbian bed death is the concept that lesbian couples in committed relationships have less sex than any other type of couple the longer the relationship lasts, and generally experience less sexual intimacy as a consequence.

So, not about violence at all? Just something that most people seem to assume happens with all couples sooner or later (“old people don’t have sex”), but with lesbians it’s somehow something Speshul?

No, normal variations on the sexual orientation scale should not be promoted, any more than certain heights should be promoted.
How are you NOT promoting homosexuality, when you say m/m are the ones with the lowest relationship violence?

Family units exist in all kinds of forms. The way to reinforce them is to ACKNOWLEDGE the existence of Rainbow Families.
Sure, a stable, functional society is only as stable and functioning as its smaller links are which, again, is why you need to ACKNOWLEDGE the existence of Rainbow Families.

Families are NOT just about raising children. If it were; then what are hubby and me? We were not able to have kids, but we are still very much productive members of society, and we pay taxes so that other people’s kids can go to kindergarten, to school, get child-benefits, and their parents can get paid parental leave to be with them when they are small. Why? Because we want balanced, well-educated people to run society when we grow old, including people to take care of us when we are old and sick or disable.

Also, as there ARE a lot of Rainbow Families raising children right now, they are clearly FAMILIES, using your definition.

Dykes and gays are ALSO collective owners of these “civilizational” assets we all collectively own.
YOU are the one wanting to destroy these assets, and thereby destroying long-term success.

The lowest rates are in m/m pairings, m/f is in the middle, and f/f have the highest rates of violence and abuse.
homosexuality of any kind shouldn't be promoted

Erm, well, not sure how to tell you this, but, you just made a pretty good claim for why it should be promoted, though, at least for some groups…

How can you talk about lesbians without talking about the statistically highest rates of intimate partner violence out of literally any pairing?

Yeah, I won’t lie, I also used that particular study a few times while debating on the internet, especially when debating against TERFs since it seems to piss them off more than anything else, but you do know that that particular finding breaks down when you look a little into other figures in that study, right? It’s specifically pointed out in the results of the study that, while 44% of lesbians do claim abuse, stalking or rape by a partner, about one-third of them have experienced it at the hands of a male partner, since a good number of lesbians have experiences with heterosexual replationships, with the accurate figure being that roughly 30% of lesbians experience something like that from a female partner, pretty much equal to the number of heterosexual men who claim to be subjected to abuse by their female partners, a few percentage points from the 35% of heterosexual women who claim to be subjected to abuse by their male partners, and far from the 60+% of bisexual women who claim to be abused by their overwhelmingly male partners.

Looking at that study critically (which you could have done in less than a minute) shows that, far from revealing that any group is uniquely evil and should be banned, the only real findigs here are that all groups are shitty and that bisexual women are in an uniquely vulnerable position, with every single other group reporting abuse at pretty similar rates ranging from 29% to 38%, with men, hetero and gay but not bi, reporting very slightly lower rates of abuse than hetero or lesbian women, with only bisexual women being serious stand-outs in this regard, with 60+% reporting abuse in general and 55+% reporting abuse by men.

The family unit and raising children is important in society to ensure there’s enough people to continue that society into the following generations, correct? Look at the world population. I don’t think we’re in any immediate danger of extinction.

"How can you talk about lesbians without talking about the statistically highest rates of intimate partner violence out of literally any pairing? The lowest rates are in m/m pairings, m/f is in the middle, and f/f have the highest rates of violence and abuse." Yeah, and I'm sure all the women who were bashed, stalked and murdered by their male partners, would be very interested to hear that. If they could hear anything, now.

Also you really think that bed death, doesn't also happen to heterosexual couples?!!

"In the end homosexuality of any kind shouldn't be promoted by a civilization because it does not reinforce the family unit." Finally, I think our civilisation and the family unit, will survive homosexuality. I mean it has existed since the ancient Greek City States, and that's just recorded history. The family unit is stronger than you think.

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