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For every gay or transgender man who's ever been married, there's an ex-wife no one thinks of. We are the invisible ones, the forgotten ones—. Until now.
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Oh noes! You've been rejected by a person you weren't even compatible with! That is an untold tragedy like none other before! Whatever will the world do now!?
Seriously, you wouldn't even have married a gay or transgender man in the first place if your inane beliefs hadn't forced him to pretend to be something he isn't. Stupid bint.
She's right it is a problem. Just not the problem she thinks it is. The problem is that these gay men and women were raised to lie about their sexual identity and forced into a loveless marriage until they couldn't lie to themselves anymore.
It's sad that she can't see the real problem. She is a victim here, just like her husband. They were both victims of a problem with their upbringing.
Yet you want LGBTs to continue denying themselves and feel compelled to marry someone from the other sex, thus ensuring that many more marriages will end up breaking like yours.
Not the sharpest knife in the drawer, are you?
Also, gay marriage is a thing now, and has been for several years in some places, so there are homosexuals who were or are still married, but never to someone of the other sex.
How many people divorce each year? How many of them are perfectly heterosexual? A huge majority I expect. And yet, I do not hear her bitching about that. Yes, she was wronged by a transgender person. And now, she is bringing the widest brush she could find to the discussion, because nuance hurts her poor brain. As they say in EVE Online: HTFU, Harden The F*ck Up.
GIMMIE A BREEAK!
If homophobia and transphobia wasn't a thing; NONE OF THIS STUFF WITH YOUR EX WOULD'VE HAPPENED!
I get it! You're hurt, heartbroken and feel betrayed! I feel for ya, I really do!
But the root of the problem was that this gentleman was FORCED TO LIVE A LIE! He felt he had no choice but to pretend to like women and marry you!
GAYS....CAN'T....HELP....WHAT....THEY....ARE....YOU....DUMBASS!
He never chose to be Gay! He wasn't seduced by the Gay Side of the Force! HE WAS ALWAYS GAY!
You're entitled to your voice, same as the LGBTs. After all, you're a victim of the religious heteronormativity pushed here, just as much as your ex-husband. I'm sure he didn't mean to hurt you, just as Oscar Wilde and Rock Hudson didn't mean to hurt their wives - it was just how it was back then.
Just don't be such a whinging victim.
If it wasn't for homophobia, bigotry and persecution, everyone of those gay men would have been married to other men.
Trans-men can be either gay or straight (or bisexual or asexual etc), and without transphobia, they would not have felt forced to marry according to norm either.
There are also ex-husbands who were married to lesbians or trans-women...
...no, wait, they would have been married to transmen, and the ex-wives would have been married to trans-women.
Confused?
So were we! You can find all of this, and more, on Fundies Say the Darndest Things!
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