Friendly reminder that Marital Rape doesn’t real.
It’s as bullshit a concept as a square circle.
(Plz explain, any sources?)
Rape only happens without consent, correct? Well, if that’s true, then when you got married, you consented. Marriage gives you a right to your spouse’s body, and vice versa.
You are contractually obligated to take care of each other’s sexual needs and, I’d be so bold as to say, be damn grateful for the opportunity.
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Weird... I don't recall making any vows, or signing any consent forms that demand I be DTF 24/7.
And does this mean that when my husband is dead tired from work, he still MUST do me, should I so desire it? I mean... I wouldn't, because I have empathy and that shit but... What happens if he becomes impotent?
I'm guessing if MiniCon became impotent he wouldn't be too pleased to hear that he is contractually obligated to get it up. Assuming of course he could find someone to marry him.
Also +1111111111 to SpukiKitty's post.
Yeah that is a privledge, not part of the contract dipshit.
@DeeGee
What you said. These silly fucks seriously believe it`s only the male who`s supposed to demand stuff, because no girl ever enjoyed herself during sex as far as they are concerned.
@Spuki
+1 for awsome!
I was going to say something, but then I realized that SpukiKitty pretty much summed it all up in an awesome package.
Nothing more to say other than this: OP, you're a douchebag. And that's me staying polite.
Friendly reminder that language doesn't work like that.
I don't know about you, but my marriage wows did NOT include "I give indefinite consent to sex whenever and wherever". The legal contract only cover obligation to take care of each other financially. Swedish law says that Marital Rape "does" real.
Shouldn't sex between spouses be loving, mutual, fun? Not something you're obligated to, even grateful for doing?
Square Circles
I've never been to a wedding where either party said "I promise to let you fuck me whenever you want, however drunk or violent"; it's usually the "to.have and to hold, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health" kind of stuff. Perhaps I should get out more.
Yeah, just keep bending your wife over the kitchen table and doing your business enough and you'll come home one day to find your wife and half your stuff gone. Nobody should ever have to put up with forceable sex, in a marriage or not.
And I'm speaking as a man whose wife isn't interested in sex nearly as much as I am. I still respect and love her enough to not rape her.
Mmmm, no, pretty sure I didn't check my autonomy at the door when I got married. The old British form of the marriage vows - "...with my body, I thee honor" - also implies honorable actions toward a spouse, and there is nothing honorable about rape.
You are contractually obligated to take care of each other’s sexual needs and, I’d be so bold as to say, be damn grateful for the opportunity.
But this suddenly becomes invalid when it's a woman making advances on her husband, obviously.
So marriage is an open ended contract wherein you're obligated to submit to your partner's every single sexual demand, including coprophilia and the inclusion of bestiality, regardless of potential harm?
Confused?
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