Why we can't let them destroy the incel label

Honestly this is a factor I genuinely believe is important to point out. I've noticed a lot of people will say things like "if you're not violent/a paedophile/rapist then you shouldn't call yourself an incel". What this is is a very deliberate attempt to atomise unattractive and cast out men from each other so that they cannot challenge the status quo and can be easily manipulated into being what society (and more specifically, women) wants them to be.

This is exactly what they did to the mens rights activist movement. The MRA movement originally aimed to point out how feminism had been totally ignoring and glossing the various issues that affected men, such as how women are allowed to physically attack men and how this isn't taken seriously by the law, how marriage laws unfairly benefit women, how men actually make up the majority of work related deaths, the majority of suicides, the majority of murders etc etc. Feminism ignored these issues almost entirely, mostly because they were advantageous to women, it benefited women to have men do all the dying at work, how men were expected to throw money at women, and it challenged womens victimhood to point all of these factors out, which of course didn't go down well with the feminists who's entire claim to special political treatment was based around their exclusive victimhood. So as I'm sure you know they destroyed the MRAs by poisoning the label. They declared them misogynists and harassed them into extinction, making sure that men who wanted to deal with these issues would be atomised and unable to rally around a single banner, and thus making them ineffective.

It seems that they're trying to do much the same with the term incel by trying to make it a term referring to rapists and paedophiles, changing it from it's original meaning so as to poison it in a similar way and atomise men who suffer as a result of societies over the top expectations of men. They want to make sure that there's no community for such men, or at least no community that isn't under the watchful hawk like eyes of feminism to squash any real discussion on this matter. They want to keep incels from each other, forcing them into isolation where they will either die in silence or be molded into the perfect little worker robots to be used and abused. After all they refer to incels are "surplus males", essentially seen as nothing more than manufactured tools to be used by them.

This is why it's important to have a label, it's pretty much the only way to keep feminism from being able to control and manipulate men who were cast out of society, since as individuals you don't stand a chance against the leftwing monolith.