as a person who survived rape as a child with no justice served, fuck pedophiles, I hope they all get acid injected into their fucking bloodstream

Again, this, exactly this, is what I was talking about. What happened to you was terrible and no one deserves go through that. And I really really want this stops to happen, that no more children have to suffer like this. But what you are saying here won’t bring you peace or justice. That is revenge. But not only that. This is an attack to yourself and your own recovery. You are not hating your abuser, you are not even hating another abusers, you are full of pain and the way you are trying to take it out is by dehumanizing a group of people so you have someone to hurt to feel better. That is not right. That is abusive. That feeds your negative feelings and makes your pain stronger. There is a high chance that your abuser wasn’t even a pedophile, it is probably that the person who hurt you wasn’t even attracted to minors. And even if they were, they took their own decision. They abused you because they wanted to abuse you, not because they were a pedophile. I know it is hard to accept that someone, another human being, a person like you, can take such a terrible decision and hurting you by their own choice, but that is the truth. Don’t give abusers an excuse. They don’t hurt people because they feel a specific attraction. They don’t hurt people because they are subhuman monsters with black souls. They hurt people because they choose to do it (sometimes because they are ill and need treatment, but never for an attraction).

I know that dehumanization and hating of a group that you can identify with your abuser is a way to cope, tricking yourself into believe that “people can’t be so monstrous, therefore, the person who hurt me wasn’t human and everyone with this trait is not human either”, because it is easier think this that accept that human beings are able to cause so much pain. And if your abuser was someone you loved (like family) that makes it even worse. But this is not healthy. This is toxic, this feeds distortions and lock you up in a circle of anger, hate and constant reminder of your pain. You can’t heal while you keep hating. Every attack towards another people is an attack to yourself. You are not hating your abuser, you are not attacking them, you are not protecting children. You are attacking innocent people, you are ignoring what professionals say we should do to prevent CSA, you are hurting yourself and making your pain deeper. You won’t get justice like this. Only the day you stop to feel this hate and anger, the day you start to understand that not all pedophiles are abusers and not all abusers are pedophiles, only that day, you will find some peace and rest.

Do you want justice? You won’t get it by hating and attacking innocent people. The genocide of 350 millions of people won’t bring you any justice. If you want justice then help children to don’t be abused. Sadly, no one can change what happened to you, but we can stop it so no more children have to suffer like you did. We can’t change the past and revenge won’t help us to feel better. The only way to get justice is fighting so no one else has to feel like this, so no one else has to feel this pain and hate. CSA prevention is the justice you should seek. And genocide is not the way. I hope someday you can see it. For your own mental health. Try to be fine there. You are loved and you don’t deserve this pain. I understand you. I support you. And I really hope you can get better, be better.

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