Listen, you "wasteofhumanlife" -- nice handle, BTW; it speaks so eloquently of how you view yourself. The following points are just a few of the reasons you cannot find a companion:
You have a self-defeating attitude. It also fucking reeks of self-pity and worse.
You and your kind bitch about those who give you good and useful advice. Your rationale for doing this is variously that nobody could possibly understand your pain, that they're oppressing you when your whining generates unwelcome commentary, that they're really out to sabotage you, and so on.
You have a *massive* and wholly unearned sense of entitlement. (As another poster here pointed out in one of these threads, there is a reason why people keep using that word to describe incels.)
For all your good-guy pretenses, most people who post on that board sound immature, unstable, or downright scary.
When you do encounter a former incel - one who tells you that yes, if you address [X] in your own life, people will find you more sexually attractive - you ignore that as well, brushing his advice off in the mistaken and totally self-serving belief that former incels aren't proof that you yourself can change but rather that they were pretenders to your self-affixed label and thus were never "truecel."
Seriously? -- WTF??? Seriously?!?!?, I guess if you're committed to a lifetime of loneliness in a prison of your own making, mocking those who've escaped similar prisons, there's only one humane recourse: GET CASTRATED!