Why do so many women have a hard time answering this question?
Girl's I've been dating I've asked the question of "Besides a warm mouth and a vagina, what would you bring to the table?" I also add in the fact that I can cook, clean, pay bills, and handle the other domestic responsibilities myself. So far, only one woman has given anything remotely worth listening to. The others either can't answer the question, never thought about the question, or just stop talking to my all together. I took this to an international group as well, and even they were stumped.
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Gee, why wouldn't a woman be compelled to justify her entire existence to you upon you reducing her to sex on demand and acting like being able to clean up after yourself is something you should be lauded for while simultaneously implying any similar basic ability to function as a human being on her own part is simply novel. You not only expect her to have no goals or purpose in life other than to dispense services to you, you expect her to literally beg for the privilege. Daily. While treating her as a burden on yourself. But of course not wanting a man to take care of her and having skills and a career that denies a man leverage to use over her or undercuts his own personal feelings of worth is just wrong and selfish.
They're not "stumped" they're quite obviously pissed at you. The only question they're asking themselves at that point is how you can possibly think that including you in their lives would ever sound like a good thing. For a bunch of shits that insist the world hates you and everything anyone does or does not do is secretly some kind of convoluted insult you're really not very good at picking up on obvious signs of anger and irritation.
Girl's I've been dating I've asked the question of "Besides a warm mouth and a vagina, what would you bring to the table?"
I assume any self-respecting woman would either be stunned into silence that you would even ask such a thing, or immediately leave. Maybe after giving you a good slap to the face, or a kick to the balls.
Besides a warm mouth and a pee-pee, what would YOU bring to the table, jo-jo? Perhaps the food?
I can cook, clean, pay bills and handle other domestic responsibilities myself too. The point is, it’s boring to do it on your own. It’s much more fun to have someone to share it with. When hubby did weekly commute for two years, I was on my own during the working weeks, and I didn’t bother to cook meals for myself, I just bought microwave-dinners for one.
You haven’t consider the possibility that the question is so stupid, the women are just baffled and speechless by the stupidity?
A question for Americans here on FSTDT: is the US society really like this in general; women moving in with men who pay for everything, while the women just lay on the couch, eating bonbons all day long? In Sweden, most families share everything (including joint economy), and both spouses work more or less full time to provide for the family.
In short, why are these guys assuming they are going to pay for everything?
@Chloe and @Skide
Thanks for the info. I thought it was the “incels” that didn’t live in this reality, but as it is so prevalent, I became a bit unsure.
Perhaps they’ve seen stories about the fifties, when Father went to work and Mother stayed home, and failed to realize that being a housewife was a FULL-time job (from waking up to going to bed and, with kids, sometimes during the night too).
Or they have learned that guys invite girls on a first date and pay for the meal, and think it will always be like that.
I know I’d rather pay for my own meal, “dutch”, I think the term is in English.
@Swede
To be fair, we only ever dined at an actual restaurant once in my life, with my hubbie, it was a Somalian place and I recall both the camel meal and the complimentary soup was top notch, but almost every time we want to have a private, fancy dinner with my hon, we brainstorm together what would we like and then I prepare that, while he goes off to grab us some wine/beer to it, we prefer to enjoy our food at home and well, me being a passionate and proud cook, we have plenty opportunities. I whipped him up a leftover risotto from a classic college student fridge, he had at the time, on our first date and I’ve been making his dinners ever since(and love every moment of it).
Unless you use just an Ethernet connection from your computer to your router, it was a woman - Hedy Lamarr - who brought Wi-Fi to the table you keep your device you just used to say what you just did.
...and which you'll remove said device from: as you slink back to your basement, to the table you'll be putting it back on.
Stumped.
Confused?
So were we! You can find all of this, and more, on Fundies Say the Darndest Things!
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