“Matt, I like some of the things you’ve written but your constant woman worship is nauseating. Again I hear you talk about how men should “protect and serve” their wives. F*ck that. You are everything that’s wrong with men in this country. I’ve had two women try to trap me with a baby. I told them to get an abortion (I offered to PAY for it) and they didn’t. That’s their choice. Am I going to ruin my whole life by letting them hold be hostage and forcing me to “serve” them? F*ck that. Those kids aren’t my business. I’m contributing to society in other ways. Monogamy might work for you because you’re a whipped assh*le but it doesn’t work for those of us who are actually trying to be happy in life. I like women so why would I resign myself to just one? No I’m not kidding or trolling. I’m just the guy who is willing to say what everyone knows is true. Your entire worldview is bullsh*t.”
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If you have unprotected sex, you might end up with a baby. The women didn't trap you as much as you trapped them. Those kids ARE your business; if you have the fun, you have to pay up as well.
It doesn't sound as if you like women, really. You might like a small part of them, but you don't seem to like them as individuals.
People are being happy in many different ways. Some are happy because of their children, some are happy because of their husband or wife, some are happy because of their garden, house or boat.
You're just the guy who is willing to profess his assholeness openly. Which is honest, I give you that. But, it's not "what everyone knows is true", dearie, it's what YOU know is true, for YOU.
Those kids aren’t my business.
Anyone else get a total feeling of revulsion and hatred of this guy after reading this sentence? I feel sorry for those children knowing they have a total asshole as a father. Luckily he won't be involved in their lives.
"I’ve had two women try to trap me with a baby."
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I don't think anyone is going to buy that, guy.
Okay, admittedly, if I somehow wound up with an infant it'd find its way to a firehouse, posthaste. So I can understand wanting to be absent from that whole... Mess... But, this... This guy is stupid, ignorant, wrong, and disgusting on so many different levels. It's astounding, really.
Man the fuck up and take responsibility
You worthless scum, you should be dragged out into the street and shot
No I’m not kidding or trolling. I’m just the guy who is willing to say what everyone knows is true.
I don’t know where I read it, but this quotes comes to mind:
“The extremist thinks that everyone secretly thinks like himself.” (paraphrased, of course)
Still waiting for SSTDT.
> I’m just the guy who is willing to say what everyone knows is true.
I don't think it's true, so you're wrong about "everybody" at least.
I’ve had two women try to trap me with a baby.
Did they use it as a lure? Or did they hide it in undergrowth to snag your ankle?
I’m contributing to society in other ways.
No you're not; you're sponging off society by getting others, including the taxpayer, to pay for the consequences of what you do. I doubt if your "contribution" even slightly compensates for the hit society has to take on your behalf. I look forward to you trying this line out in court.
I've seen some of these guys on court shows; proud of how many baby mamas they have, all with their kids, and not supporting any. Working at the car wash, when they do, or Mickey D's. I like women too, and never had a very good job. I was never a responsible type beyond what I could take care of, so I made sure I did not produce any offspring.
Hey, maybe I was responsible, after all.
Man I gots me fo' - FO'! baby mama and six chirrens. I be da man in dis hood, Jim.
"I like children...little girl children...about 18..."______________W.C. Fields
Let me guess, this "man" is a MRA?
At times I feel like I should cut off my balls to avoid being just like them, but then I realize I would be just like them if I did that.
Don't want kids? Use protection, want a 100% chance of not having kids? Have sex with your hand.
Otherwise man the fuck up and take responsibility.
Yea, I have one child. I don't pay child support because her mother didn't think it was fair (being that she has a wealthy family, and I was working full-time just to barely scrape by).
However, I am not proud of it, and I was very careful not to cause any more unexpected pregnancies. I am also still a part of my daughter's life, as well as good friends with her mother.
But then, I'm not some coward who uses people & throws them away, unlike BW.
@Kuno
No I’m not kidding or trolling. I’m just the guy who is willing to say what everyone knows is true.
I don’t know where I read it, but this quotes comes to mind:
“The extremist thinks that everyone secretly thinks like himself.” (paraphrased, of course)
It is also a key feature of paranoia, IIRC. (and of conservatism, but I repeat myself)
The sad(dest) part is that I can't dismiss the possibility that BW may be telling (part of) the truth. Not because these women were the cold-blooded gold-diggers ou possessive harpies intent on taking away his manly freedom BW probably believes them to be, but because he sounds a lot like one of these pick-up artists asswipes who treat vulnerable women like Romney-style slash-and-burn capitalists treat struggling companies: take them over, get all you can out of them then drop the plundered wreck, repeat with a new one. And when a woman has had her sense of self-worth and her support network dismantled by a manipulative asshole to make her dependant on him, well, it isn't too surprising that she'd try to keep him by whatever means when she senses that his interest is waning and his eye is starting to wander, particularly considering how pervasive (and pernicious) the "babies will fix your couple" trope remains.
It's also pretty clear that Casanova here doesn't wrap the salami, so unless he has the basic decency to remain monogamous while he's with a woman and to get tested after he leaves her, it wouldn't surprise me if babies are not the only STI he shared with these poor women...
Who wants to bet he owns at least two fedoras..
I am annoyed by the Fedora wearing MRA's, it's one of the only hats that look decent on me
Ooooh, who's an asshole, then? You are, yes, you are.
My dad walked out on me and my mom when I was very young. I never got a chance to know him. That bring said, I want to be the father I never had for my future children when I have them.
You, BW, aren't a man. A man would stand up and take responsibility for the consequences of their actions. You are an abomination to the male gender. If I believed in a God, I'd pray for him to have mercy on your soul.
The judges who get the cases when those women drag your ass to court will inform you that those kids are, in fact, your business.
On the other hand, if I were unfortunate enough to be one of those women, I'd probably rather live under a bridge with my kid than initiate a court action that would make you a part of his or her life, so that's probably why you're getting away with being a deadbeat.
You and your ilk disgust me, with your stupid belief that happiness is a different warm hole to fuck every night. You could've worn a fucking condom, to minimize the collateral damage of your existence, but I'm guessing you didn't, and now you refuse to accept that actions have consequences. And you have the guts to claim that everyone else that isn't a sociopathic, sex-obsessed asshole is just "whipped". Fuck you .
A co-worker of mine had an unplanned child with his girlfriend. He is still young and was studying in a university. Now he manages to cope up with his work, continues with his studies and has time for his son. He hasn't married but definitely he is giving support for the child, otherwise he wouldn't need the job.
I am astonished by how many more times a man he is compared to you.
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