Agreed. Porn is a deal breaker for me. Why should women be okay with men fapping their greedy little dicks off to objectifying women. You wanna watch someone get off?
Learn how to get your partner off, then, you lazy sack of crap. You wanna get off? Show some love and respect to your partner and put your sexual attention on them. Luckily I have an SO who feels the same way.
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Dunno, because some of us are? I get it, you would rather break a lifelong relationship because your spouse likes to jack off once in a while but not all of us are utterly selfish, sociopathic bitches like you. Also he watches porn, I do it as well.
While I would have phrased some things differently, and I am more or less OK with my SO watching porn, she does have a point. There is no denying that for SOME men, porn distorts their expectations. I would love to see more porn that respects women's sexual agency and desires.
For f*ck's sake (pun intended), you can enjoy porn and still please your partner. My wife certainly does not complain and she likes to take a look or two, once in a while.
It's called fantasising. Not everything is possible in your life, but you can still think about it and put your mind to it. We do not have the money to buy some of the more extravagant stuff that we would like, it does not hurt to imagine the situation, though.
Porn can also give you some pointers (pun intended, too. I know I am shameless.) on some stuff. Google Kink Academy if you are over 18 (or 21 depending on the age of consent in your country. There, that was a disclaimer). They have some great stuff about BDSM and sexual practices in general.
Me and the hubby watch it together. sometimes to spice up the whoopie making and sometimes just to laugh our asses off. I work way too many hours and i never fault the hubby for taking care of his buisness with visual aids. I myself also enjoy it as well, though i like reading it more then watching most times. Dont like porn? Then dont bloody watch it.
I really hate the false dichotomy that claims you can't respect woman and watch porn. BULLHONKY. Just because I'm jacking off to a woman doesn't mean I can't respect her as a human being. And if it's just about not objectifying women, then they should be fine with gay porn, since it has no woman to objectify. And while we're on the subject, are men in porn being objectified? If not, why is it possible to objectify women but not men? And what about hentai? Why are you worried about objectifying a woman who isn't even real? And what do you say to women who watch porn? Are they objectifying themselves?
Perhaps the issue is a bit more nuanced than "If you watch porn, you abuse women, no exceptions."
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