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[Are you really comparing not getting laid to a terminal illness? Wow.]

Sex may not be a big deal to normies and chads since they get so much. But for incels like me even just touch from a woman is enough to excite us, being deprived of the essential needs of courtship and human bonding, due to factors out of our control such as ugliness, is just about as painful emotionally as having a terminal illness.

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Yeah hey if it's human bonding you're after why is the most common incel reaction to a woman wanting to be friends pure hateful rage? Why do I get blank stares when I suggest talking to women without any expectations whatsoever? Why is sex the only reason you dolts can think of to even speak to women?

You fail with women because you treat them like something that's bought. Like a date is a down payment. Like they're whores, selling themselves, and it is their one purpose in life. Like any thought they express is actually a cover or a test or anything but what they actually think because you're convinced you've already got it figured out and they just won't cooperate with you.

old comment by Bimaac

That sub is essentially one giant pity party yet they routinely spew forth puerile "manosphere" and "alt-right" insults like, "cuck" and "mangina".

Ignoring that these manbabies are the biggest bunch of "cucks" and "manginas" on the Web.

Assuming this isn't a Poe. There is the rumor that Redditors are seeking to discredit "incels" by trolling and making Poe posts in the assorted "incel" subs.

This feels like it could be a Poe, just look at their username, but considering "incels" total lack of self-awareness, there's just as good a chance that this is legit.

And you seriously haven't noticed "incels" single-minded obsession with sex,1995751? To them, women are just a life support system for a vagina.

old comment by CrowFood

"Sex may not be a big deal..."

It depends on the person. I consider myself a normal guy, but I consider it a big deal. Some people I know don't. *Shrug*

"...even just touch from a woman is enough to excite ut..."

...I mean, I get that way when my girlfriend touches me...but touch itself? Not so much.

"...just about as painful emotionally as having a terminal illness."

Well, fuck you. I was a late bloomer sexually, and yeah, the lack of sex in my life was frustrating, but Jesus, I'd never compare it to having a terminal illness. Possibly because I've had friends taken by a terminal illness and that struggle is...devistating. Frustration at not having sex does not even merit a comparison.

old comment by Doubting Thomas

You know what really turns women off? Self-pity.

But here's the thing: Even being married doesn't guarantee sex any time and any where you want. You'll be primed and in the mood and she will come up stressed out and frustrated and the kids will be driving her crazy, and she'll be nowhere near in the mood for sexy fun time. Or she'll just not have as high a sex drive as you do. I've been married 17 years and am lucky if I get it once a week. You know what I don't do? Sit around and whine about how I'm not getting my rightful share of sex.

So even us "normies" aren't banging like a screen door in a hurricane. Back when I was single I had a probably 6 year or so dry stretch with maybe one partner in that whole time. But I knew it was because of me not getting out and meeting a lot of women, not because all women were being bitches for not beating down my door to jump in my bed.

old comment by Bimaac

I went through a nine-year dry spell, Thomas and the first time I had sex at the end of it was terrible.

Even then, it was a good six years before I met the woman I've had a steady, casual FWB relationship with for the past three years with a couple year-long dry spells in between.

You know what? I made it through it just fine. I did miss the intimacy of being with a partner but at the same time, I just had a little "alone time".

You'd think that would be the logical way to deal with their bullshit, Spuki; spit, palm, imagination. Or, spit, palm, internet porn.

Hell, invest in a Fleshlight. And like you said, they have no interest in having a relationship and just view women as a life-support system for a vagina so why not just buy a fake one?

Or if they can afford it, go to see an escort. You're probably safer going with a woman who works for a reputable escort agency then you are some random bar or Tinder pick-up.
Though, like I've said a few times, I don't think even a, "just doing it for the booze and/or drug money" prostitute should have an "incel" for a client.

The problem is that "incels" are obsessed with sex.

old comment by Timjer

Look, pal, I'm just a week shy of 24 and I've never even held hands with or kissed a woman that's not a relative, let alone have sex with one. Mostly because I have aspergers and have strong social anxiety. Amongst other things.

But my point is, I'm still alive and kicking and as my last checkup showed, in pretty good health. So, please, shut the fuck up, you self-entitled, whiny douchebags. You're not hurting, and you're certainly not dying from it. Not as much as people with an actual terminal illness, that's for sure.

Seriously, I have never met anyone so willing to act like the ultimate victim and blame everybody else for their own problems than incels.

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