Men with long hair,
Men wearing short socks,
Pastel colored clothing,
etc. etc. etc.
Men are visually stimulated, and women are typically emotionally stimulated sexually. So, why are men working harder and harder to appear sexy in the way they dress or fix their hair?
I say it's because the media is pushing this kind of dress to promote the Queer agenda. Half the teen boys I see anymore are Metrosexuals (very feminine)... who are they stimulating by acting or dressing feminine? It's not primarily the women... it's the men.... and the Queer men to be specific.
So, if we are allowing our male children to dress or behave in a feminine manner... we are basically hanging them in the meat market of abomination for all the Queers to check out.
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Metrosexual is a term that has lost out. It was flavour of the month. The month has passed, and the term is now out of favour.
As to the Queer Agenda, please show me a copy. Although gay, I have yet to see it.
And to put you straight ( take that any way you choose!) I am a gay man. I am not interested in women sexually in the slightest. Nor am I interested in men who choose to adopt feminine attributes. I suggest they may be after straight men like you - so watch out!
As for me, as a gay man, I am interested in men - not surrogate women.
Do you begin to understand how off the wall your posting really is now?
Probably not. But your bigotry is evident enough anyway. But their fruits shall ye know them, and your interest in fruits is very evident!
let's see: throughout the history of European fashion, the style of men's clothing has mainly been very flamboyant (for those who could afford it) with a couple of periods of "Puritanism".
It's only really been since the second world war that the "short back and sides" culture has ruled, and that for only a couple of decades. So how can this period, and its fashion, be considered the norm?
Yes, long hair on men is very feminine.
My boyfriend has long hair. You could totally mistake him for a woman, because so many women are 6'4" tall, weigh 200 pounds, have beards, broad shoulders and masculine facial structure.
Wait, that's really not all that feminine at all, is it?
Goddamn, I'm fucking tired of hearing that long hair on men is feminine. All of the long-haired men I know are pretty damn manly (and I know a lot).
I don't know why this specific point bothers me so much.
I also have to second Xotan: as a woman who has dated ladeez, I have to say that if I'm attracted to a woman, it's because she's... (gasp) beautiful and womanly.
Women are visually stimulated. Trust me on this.
Why do you think the covers of romance novels often feature men with long hair and bare chests?
Don't forget that a few hundred years ago, back when fundies thought things were perfect, men's clothing consisted of hose, short puffy pants, ruffled shirts and long, curly wigs.
Once in a blue moon a phrase comes along that is so utterly brilliant, so made of 100% pure win that it instantly becomes part of my arsenal of stock quotes. Today this short but select list is joined by the phrase:
hanging in the meat market of abomination
Beautiful!
Meat Market of Abomination
You'll find this in the Darth Mall, near the Voldamart and the All-You-Can-Eat Buffet.
Yeah, it's gittin' so's ya cain't tell a boy fum a girl anymore 'th all these here dang hippies 'n' beatniks - long hair, flowers 'n' sech. Them boys orta be macho men, lovers 'n' fighters 'n' wild horse riders; rugged he-men.
It's about time that men use some shower gel and brush their teeth regularly, that's not metrosexual, that's just clean and healthy! Stupid redneck!
And if people (men/women) enjoy dressing up and looking nice, what's your problem? I guess I know, suddenly the ladies around you expect you to look good and you just are to lazy to go through all the trouble! Women are stimulated by looks, believe it or not, we have eyes (and noses)!
Pastel colors went out with the 80's. Long hair has not really been common since the early 90's when mullets and hair bands went the way of every other fashion trend.
In 16th & 17th century Europe, men wore hose, short bloomers, pointed shoes, and large hats with feathers and other adornments. Were all those ment being hung out as meat? Children in those days, male or female, wore bonnets and long dresses. Boys weren't "breeched" until they were 8 or 9. Look at a painting from that time period and see if you can identify the male children from the female children. Long hair? If that is an indicator of the fall of society than the world would have ended a thousand times over in the past 2000 plus years. Didn't the white Jesus have long hair?
Fashion is no indicator of the destruction of society. If that were the case, the late 60's and early 70's would have brought society to its knees and he 80's would have destroyed the ozone with all the big hair and hairspray. (oh, wait....).
Move on to a topic that works.
Men are visually stimulated, and women are typically emotionally stimulated sexually. So, why are men working harder and harder to appear sexy in the way they dress or fix their hair?
Don't know much about women, huh?
Half the teen boys I see anymore are Metrosexuals (very feminine)
Surely that's your problem isn't it?
who are they stimulating by acting or dressing feminine?
Ah! Now I get it! Is it you by any chance?
If thine eye offends thee fundie...
Long Hair. Femenine.
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I feel a FAIL coming.
Jesus had long hair, wore a very flattering robe, and sandals.
So either be consistent and denounce Christians as 'queer-worshippers,' or STFU.
On second thought, just STFU anyway.
So men are acting and dressing more feminine in order to attract homosexual men, who are not interested in women?
Does this make sense anywhere in the world?
When I started growing my hair out longer, I got *loads* of flattering attention from the ladies. Frankly, that's what encouraged me to keep my hair long for a whole decade, in spite of the fact that it was so much more trouble. Nearly every woman I know lamented it when I cut my hair short again, because they loved the look of it.
As for the gay guys I knew during this time, every single one had short hair, and none of them were hitting on me.
Also, I seem to recall a fellow in the Bible named Samson with legendary locks. For that matter, Jesus had long hair.
Bibleapologist fails by a hair.
I'm a biker chick, and nearly all the biker men I know - including the gay ones - have long hair... and beards, and tattoos, and facial piercings, and are nearly all built like a brick shithouse. The ones that don't are not effeminate, either.
Long hair is feminine. Pfft. Fundie gender classifications fail again.
Besides, I'm a woman, I have short hair (above ear) and I wear pants *gasp* which you fundies loathe so much. Nobody has ever mistaken me for a dude. You're going wrong somewhere, bibleapologist.
Even if it were true that women aren't influenced by physical appearance (which it isn't), just because a man wants to look nice doesn't necessarily mean he's gay. Maybe he's not looking nice for other men but is looking nice for himself , which inspires him to be more confident and therefore to find it easier to engage with a woman on the emotional level which you seem to think is all women are capable of.
In other words, you lose.
I dare you to call this guy queer.
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And your a little obsessed with what teenagers wear, and hung meat aren't you?
Funny, as a gay guy, I like men with short hair. (not that there's anything wrong with long hair. Just not my thing)
If I was attracted to feminine traits, I would date females.
BTW, my female friends have pointed out this guy is an idiot. Women do indeed care how a man looks
I like my hair long, it goes well with the full beard.
According to the reputed Spartan attitude to long hair, it makes a handsome young man beautiful, and an ugly man terrifying.
I must be terrifying, as the gays I know have not troubled to approach me. But, apparently, not too terrifying for a certain subset of the feminine race.
Bible salesmen and evangelizers shun me. That's the best part.
I second what Aethernaut said. There is some chronic insecurity coming off this post.
Oh, and looking at some of the other commments made by long-haired guys here, I think there must be something badly wrong with me, because I get mistaken for a girl all the time.
Hmmm...I'm bisexual. I've dated other men...and my hair's short. Their hair was short. And while I occasionally dress in 80's pastel colors, it doesn't make other men fling themselves at me. In fact, many of them think it's the corniest thing they've ever seen.
Now, I have an uncle with long hair...and he's straight. Married and everything. Confined to a wheelchair because he wrecked his Harley a while back, but other than that, he's one of those Wonderful Christian Men...minus the general misogyny and asshattery that fundies seem to like. And trust me, if you told him long hair was a thing for little girly men, he could probably snap your wrist in half.
All in all, this gets Skinny Slim's personal "Logic go BOOM" award. Have a nice day. ^^
@guy who posted the Rob Zombie pic:
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Manowar are fucking awesome lol.
Okay, seriously, when you're trying to prove that long hair is manly, nothing but the manliest metal musicians will do.
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Glenn Barry
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Russell Allen
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John Petrucci
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Paul Baloff, whose vicious vocals redefined "badass".
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Nick Menza
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Mikael Akerfeldt
/So, why are men working harder and harder to appear sexy in the way they dress or fix their hair?/
Because we don't want Neanderthals for husbands. Sorry, Bibleapologist.
Is this guy serious? Does he think the Jeez knocked around in jeans? Moses wore slacks?
Men didn't even wear pants for most of human history. And their hair length?
I don't need to type anything here--these a-holes mock themselves.
Gay men aren't the only sexual people in the world. Women also have sexuality, and they want to fuck guys that look good.
Lots of men dress differently, have their hair cut one way or another, wear cologne, anything, just to get a woman's attention.
That. Is. Not. Gay. Dressing to fuck a woman is not dressing to fuck a man.
If men were meant to wear short hair, they would have been born so. Besides, if your premise were true, the whole humankind would have ended in the caves, because if we need to wear long/short hair to differentiate the sexes, we'd have a serious problem(in fact, wearing the hair totally short is a very recent fashion and it was confined ONLY to certain castes in the past). That's what happens when you confuse morality with social stereotypes. And you're relying in a very absurd premise, that is, that gay men are effeminate. In that case, who plays which role, of female and male?, can't you just accept that women are stimulated by sight too and that gay men are stimulated by MEN in general?
This guy has never seen the cover of a romance novel has he?
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Though it baffles me, a great many women find this guy (Fabio) unbelievably sexy.
You forget that Jesus Himself, in all of our western paintings, has long hair and looks pretty damn feminine.
Looks like you better stop letting children read the Bible or they might turn out gay.
And how are they going to attract men, if there are so many depraved women around(always according to you)?, tough competence!. I don´t know, it reminds me the joke of the Spanish farmer who confused a bull for a cow.
My dad bitches for hours if his socks aren't comfortable. However, which style depends on his shoes.
Long hair is comfortable, and i like washing mine (when i had it. Damn short haircut).
Depends on the shade of pastel. Besides, i find bold, powerful colours sexy. Hell, most days my dad has to wear a pale shirt to work due to dress code.
I'm more powerfully emptionally stimulated, and occasionally its, you know, fun to dress up.
Half teen boys are metro...? obviously you haven't been to a highschool or a mall, just watched Family Channel with your teen spawn. And What is "Femenine"to you?
One of my best friends has long hair down to his mid-back.
He even wears it in a pony-tail. How feminine is that?!
It just goes along with his beard, his combat boots, his leather jacket, his death-metal t-shirts, his 6' height...
So feminine, amirite?
I can't stop laughing about the short socks comment. In my imagination this guy looks like a high school science teacher, with the long socks and sandals, shorts no matter what the weather is like and a pinstriped short sleeve shirt. He doesn't 'believe' in deodorant and gets his hair trimmed (short back and sides) at the barber every 4 weeks without fail.
I used to have long hair, until I changed jobs and decided on a new look. I briefly even wore my hair in a ponytail, and I do have some clothes that could probably be called pastel. I own socks both short and long.
Even so I like to think I am masculine in a very ordinary guy-next-door sort of way and that not even a blind man would think me remotely feminine. One thing for sure, I am 100% hetero.
So, if we are allowing our female children to dress or behave in a feminine manner, we are basically hanging them in the meat market of abomination, for all Straights to check out.
Why is it only bad when boys are the target?
Men are starting to care about their appearance and grooming because, in fictionaland at least, women are starting to be a big chunk, if not a majority, of the audience. So, they present, in the way men did in the past, idealised versions both of themselves and the men that can be potential mates. That sounds more logical.
“So, why are men working harder and harder to appear sexy in the way they dress or fix their hair?”
Women noticed if we put in the effort.
Confused?
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