Well, just as an example, I have 3 cousins who last year finally cut off their mother completely because she put everyone through a big rigmarole about her health, how bad her back and eyesight were, and needed help, and couldn't get what she needed living with her daughter, so she went to a nursing home, where within months, she's stopped physical therapy and hasn't yet seen the doctor about her cataract surgery, just suddenly decide to leave the nursing home and rent a trailer . . . whereupon she can no longer get the financial aid she needs for treatment, because Medicaid was paying as long as she was in the nursing home, and her kids couldn't afford it. One of her sons had even put his financial state at risk to get her into the nursing home, because if Medicaid wouldn't pay anything, he was bound to it, and had already paid hundreds of dollars he didn't really have for the first month, hoping that Medicaid approved her.
This is after her daughter did half the job of raising her little brothers herself, because my aunt wouldn't do much of anything, except sometimes run off with the last of the money and leaving her husband and 4 kids with no means to pay rent or feed themselves. Please don't ask why I said 3 to start, and 4 she raised, but at least that difference isn't her fault. And this is a very cut down description of just how their childhood, and adulthood, with this woman have gone. Rest assured . . . there are reasons a mother gets cut off by her adult kids. And I don't doubt out of those links posted earlier are even worse stories than this one.
So yeah, maybe there's a missing Commandment, perhaps one on the tablet that Moses dropped, instructing Mothers and Fathers to actually care for their Children . . . maybe this bitch should bear that in mind.
Also, if you apologize, every time, even when you know you're right . . . your mother is still abusive, just possibly not quite the worst. God, is this bitch incapable of understanding her view of the world is not the only possible one?