[ I was hurt by being raped Bob. I was stabbed to the point of never being able to have children and Bob, let me tell you, it hurt like Hell. It still does. I'm haunted by it every day. I'm haunted by the fact that my husband at the time couldn't face the idea of having sex with me again- I was used goods and useless since I could no longer produce the children we both longed for. I was in agony when I finally had to have a historectomy after years of surgeries, hormone therapy and a period that lasted 7 1/2 months due to the damage done. I was hurt when another woman claimed to have been raped when the truth was she didn't want her boyfriend to know she'd slept with someone else. I'm hurt by the flashbacks of another man's face when I want to make love to my husband. I'm hurt by the nightmares. I'm hurt by the violation of my right to say no- just like the right you have to refuse. I'm hurt by the fact that I was seen simply as a sexual object. I'm hurt by the fact that my own father wouldn't have anything to do with me afterwards- I was suddenly dirty. I'm hurt by the fact that other men I knew decided to have a try since I was so obviously used goods and I no longer deserved respect or courtesy. Men like you Bob. I'm hurt by the fact that my pain and confusion after the rape led me to be very promiscuous for several years- I didn't respect my self or my body any more than the rapist did. Bob, I found your blog through a fathers rights support group you and I are both on. Your comments there frighten and sicken me. Your comments here are contemptable. I support mens rights- I have fought both in the US and the UK for fathers rights to equal access to their children. I have spoken before state legislatures in support of fathers rights. I know men are getting the short end of things right now, but you have gone too far. Yes, sex is a natural act for CONSENTING adults- I wasn't consenting. I did not enjoy being assaulted. I did not enjoy being stabbed. I did not enjoy having my life altered in one instant. I did not enjoy having my right to be a parent taken away from me.
So there, a woman who was hurt by being raped.
You never answered the last writers question Bob- what if it was your wife? Your daugther? Your sister? Your mother? Are they supposed to simply lie back and enjoy an attacker? Are you yourself a predator Bob? Sounds to me like you're trying to justify yourself.
Bob, at this point I'd like to say I wish it had been you instead of me, but I could never wish this kind of pain on anyone.- ]

Your rant is typical of the femorrhoids who hold onto "my rapist" for years and whine and blame every bad thing they have ever done on five minutes of unwanted sex. You blame years of your promiscuity on "my rapist," how convenient an excuse. Like all feminazi, her crimes are always some man's fault, never the female's fault. And we are supposed to believe that insertion of one man's cock instead of another caused severe physical pain and damage that neither her husbands cock and nor even her years of promiscuity didn't cause. Like all feminazi rants, Ms. Anonymous makes wild claims that just don't add up. Her feelings were hurt she's nursed and fed her hurt feelings for years, using "my rapist" as the evil upon which to blame all her sins and emotional problems. Instead of getting on with her life and accepting her responsibility she blames some man. And now, of course, in typical feminazi fashion, she digresses into ad-hominem insults aimed at Bob for daring to question the standard feminazi propaganda line. She was "stabbed," describing a man's body as a weapon. Her feelings were hurt. She lost control of men and sex. Boo Hoo!

And then she tosses in the usual femorrhoid "mother, daughter, sister" misdirection. Perhaps you can explain to us how my particular mother, sister, or daughter is any different from any other female who want's to get laid and who blames the nearest available man for all her problems? Well, Toots, what if it was my father, brother, uncle, or son's life is destroyed, be sent to a hell hole prison for decades, and become a pariah in any community simply because he boffed some female who suffered no significant injury? As Bob's grandmother advised, rape can be enjoyable, as enjoyable as any other sex. Destroying a man's life over sex is so far beyond rational that only a feminazi hate monger would consider it. No, Toots, Bob's mother, sister, daughter is no more important than Bob's father, brother, son. And Bob's mother, sister, daughter is like other women, they also want to get laid. Don't use that old feminist hate propaganda line about, "your mother, sister, or daughter." It's old tired feminazi hate speech and it's time to stuff it up your arse.

An old wise woman Bob once knew summed it up this way, "Happiness is a sticky crotch."