(response to: "--men really dont want to fuck that often — just enough to make you afraid you are pregnant every month, but never enough to give you any real pleasure. yes? welcome to female heterosexuality. thats pretty much the definition of it.”)
Actually, I believe that if a 100% safe and harmless contraceptive method for intercourse was found, men suddenly wouldn’t enjoy fucking anymore. They enjoy it for the sake of female risk, I really, really believe this. After safe and healthy contraception would be discovered, they’d feel that the charm of sex would be gone. Because heterosexual sex in patriarchy = sadism. Against females.
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"Actually, I believe that if a 100% safe and harmless contraceptive method for intercourse was found, men suddenly wouldn’t enjoy fucking anymore. They enjoy it for the sake of female risk, I really, really believe this."
Actually in most cases the reverse is true. The risk of pregnancy causes anxiety in the male. If a 100% effective contraception method was found, both sexes would enjoy sex much more.
Right. Because, you know, DNA test don't mean that men can get away with..........wait, nope, they can't
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!
I'm sorry, but when someone says that men wouldn't want to have sex if no babies could come of it, that's about as coherent as I can be. Thanks for starting my day with a laugh, tiamathydra
So DO you or do you NOT want sex?? Make up your damn mind!
Plus, I have to disagree -It's usually the other way around.
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So, uh... apparently men have sex for the thrill of possibly making women pregnant?
Ibuki doesn't really buy that, partly because of all that she's heard about how condoms are in high demand for being useful for avoiding pregnancy, and also because it doesn't make any sense.
Right. It's not the flood of dopamine released into my system when I achieve orgasm which only grows even stronger if achieved with a partner that spurs me on to seek out sexual partners, nor is it the emotional fulfillment that comes from such closeness with someone I care about. No, I do it simply to enjoy the chance that I might impregnate someone (in spite of the fact that I'd sooner give up a thumb than raise a child).
I'd love to hear the dumb cunt reason away why gay men bother to have sex at all. Or men who've had vasectomies. Or why condoms exist. That should really be something.
Erm, I know a 100% safe and harmless contraceptive method; infertility. I haven't used any kind of protection, whatsoever, since 1998.
I had a miscarriage in 2002, that is it.
My husband has definitely NOT tired of sex, and nor have I.
"Because heterosexual sex in patriarchy = sadism. Against females."
Why is it then, that so many men go to a dominatrix?
The old ten-milligram pills were pretty fail-safe, any risk was far in the future, and damme, we all adored fucking.
You would be wrong. I had a vasectomy and I enjoy sex with my wife as much as ever. Probably even more, since there's absolutely no risk of pregnancy, and no need for my wife to take a pill, insert something in her hoohah, or for me to wear a rubber thing on my johnny.
Things you are clueless about:
Sex
Contraceptives
BDSM
Sex drive
And probably everything related to sex, really.
So if my tubes being tied and my hubby's vasectomey make it so we can't have kids anymore no matter how hard we try, why the hell does he still always bug me for sexy time even though he already gets it twice a day? We went for the double procedure precisely so we could boink constantly without worry of anymore children
Because all men are sadists who love putting their partners health at risk and never giving them pleasure ?
No, just no.
please see a psychiatrist about your issues, or the police about the abusive boyfriend/husband.
"Actually, I believe that if a 100% safe and harmless contraceptive method for intercourse was found, men suddenly wouldn’t enjoy fucking anymore."
Actually, this is the brand I always use, which have never let me down...:
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Ribbed. For her pleasure.
So there's your 'argument' fucked , tia. [/Sadist] >:D
And that's why men never sleep with women who are sterile or have had hysterectomies. Oh, wait, that's not true at all.
Well, that's at least why men who have had vasectomies never have any sexual desire... oh, wait, wrong again.
And hey, you're absolutely right about how no man wants sex very often... wait, wait, no, that's verifiably false.
That's three strikes, I'm afraid. Yerrrr out!
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@Liberal Christian: Actually, radfems are just the fringe minority. They just happen to be the most obnoxious. Think of them as the WBC of feminism.
FTR, pretty much everyone here at FSTDT is a feminist of some stripe (though I'm guessing you're not?).
I really, really believe this.
Then you are severely mentally ill. Seek help. Medications are in a different world these days. Since I started taking anti-psychotics, my "visions" have gone from several a day to maybe one a month. Seriously, you are not well and need help.
Males like sex for the thrill of getting their sexual partners pregnant, but contraceptives are on high demand just about everywhere...
Something is not quite right in here...
Wait, men aren't sex crazed monsters that want to fuck everything with a hole 24/7? So het guys hate blowies and hand jobs since they only get off by threatening women with unwanted pregnancy. And men who are infertile or are involved with women who can't get pregnant don't enjoy sex at all.
And gay men only have sex because they, um... Well, it must still somehow involve degrading women. That's the only explanation for men liking sex, after all.
@ Liberal Christian: No, don't be a tit. The radfems mock feminists, who they call "funfems," for being suck ups to men, basically. Stating that all feminists are extremist is the kind of crap the MRAs spew.
Actually, I believe that if a 100% safe and harmless contraceptive method for intercourse was found, men suddenly wouldn’t enjoy fucking anymore.
Blowjobs. Your argument is invalid.
So... men just have sex with women to make them paranoid of pregnancy?
Pardon me again?
Listen, I have places to go, experiments to perform, failures that end in fun explosions to see!
I'm young, a baby now is the last thing on my mind. I'll wait until I'm older to consider children.
There is a 100% effective natural form of contraception, it's called the menopause.
If the OP is correct no woman over the age of 51 would get any sex at all.
Fortunately she is not. Many couples continue a loving änd active sexual relationship well into old age
Neither of you understand men at all. Like, at all.
Try taking a human sexuality course in psychology at your nearest college or university. Try learning about half the human race.
@Passerby :
Thank you, it was always an ambition of me to earn an internet with blowjobs
Wait, that came out wrong.
That too.
Yes, because I really hope to one day knock up my girlfriend with my tongue and fingers. Or get her mouth pregnant. Look, what I'm saying is we really like foreplay and oral so there's one of many flaws in your statement.
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