["You are also suggesting that adults may choose to be sexually attracted to the same sex; can you see yourself CHOOSING to go and have hot porno sex with truckstop bill down the road? Can't you see how STUPID that suggestion is?"]
Actually I think its quite possible to learn to like truckstop bill sodomising you and vice versa.
Ever heard the stories in various prisons??
Its a taste that can be aquired if the prime motivating force is just to have fun.
I mean the Greeks did it.
The question is where should society draw the lines for the purpose of fun?
Or on the other side if homosexuals really have no choice why dont they just learn to have fun in the heteroway , becasue it is clearly a thing that can be learnt. And for the spyco part of the relationship they hcan have same sex friends as most people do have.
Or what are the other reasons for having only homsexual relations?
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Listen HoKoWo, if that really is your name.
I'm assuming that you're heterosexual and male, so let me ask you this. Do you get an erection looking at or thinking about naked men?
You don't!, Really, well why don't you just choose to then? C'mon, choose, just this once, to engage your sexual attaction and find a naked man attactive.
Finding someone attactive is not a choise, you either do or you don't. Well, ok, I mean alcohol can help if you're having difficulties but since you obviously believe sexual preference to be a choice, I want you to 'flick your own switch' and become gay for me just to prove it.
You can no-more force yourself to be aroused than you can prevent yourself from having Monday morning wood, so do all of us a favour and place your genitals inside your dog's mouth, then flick his testicles with a wet towel.
PS: You've totally misunderstood the relationship between male warriors in Greek society and the relationship between a young boy and an older man. I suggest you do some research.
Ever heard the stories in various prisons??
Its a taste that can be aquired if the prime motivating force is just to have fun.
Yep! Prison sex is FUN!!!
"Awww! I wanna be the bitch tonight! You're always the bitch!"
Nothing to do with too much testosterone and repressed sex-drive, and little other outlet for it. Nope. It's all just fer fun!
"Actually I think its quite possible to learn to like truckstop bill sodomising you and vice versa. "
Is that Bill in the closet with you?
"Or on the other side if homosexuals really have no choice why dont they just learn to have fun in the heteroway , becasue it is clearly a thing that can be learnt."
Which part of "no choice" do you not understand?
That's precisely the problem he's pointing. If homosexuality was chosen, there should be a reason WHY people choose it. If it were just a temporary scape in a place lacking the opposite sex, for example, there wouldn't be people of ALL sorts of backgrounds being homosexuals(I mean, ATTRACTED to the opposite sex, not openly homosexuals or having, necessarily, homosexual sex). Besides, if it were true, it would not be repeated once the conditions are removed. That means that pastors' children, Catholics who decide to remain celibate when they discover that they're homosexuals, married people who live a double life, etc...........wouldn't exits. There wouldn't be gay conversion centres(with their spectacular failure rate)if it were true.
Think twice. There are rich thieves?, or people who kill in a crime of passion are likely to repeat?. No, because stealing, killing and other sins ARE indeed works of will. Who you're attracted to isn't.
"Listen HoKoWo, if that really is your name."
I'm sorry. I didn't actually read the rest of your comment. I was laughing too much at that bit.
(male) gay sex includes sodomy (a taste shared by many straights) as well as cock sucking, nipple teasing, and just plain kissing. These last three tend NOT to be what happens when straight men are confined together (especially the last: it's the difference between screwing something to get your rocks off, and making love (however superficially)
Ever heard the stories in various prisons??
Yes, and after they come out and have access to women again, they go back to women. There's no indication that prison sex actually changes a straight person to gay.
"Ever heard the stories in various prisons??
Its a taste that can be aquired if the prime motivating force is just to have fun."
Because everybody is really bisexual at least to a small extent, so yes overtime I suppose you could learn to enjoy the less prefered sex more but you're never going to extinguish your attraction to the more preferred sex.
"The question is where should society draw the lines for the purpose of fun?"
That is an important question, but you seem to be drawing the line based on what disgusts you. You do know that if by accepting that as a basis to draw the line you are inviting others to draw lines against what you like to do based on what they find disgusting. A more logical way to draw the line is whether or not the fun is hurting any nonconsenting parties. Otherwise nobody's freedom is safe, because all it takes a majority to disagree with what they like.
Ever heard the stories in various prisons??
Wow...because it's totally consensual, and not forced, be it through rape, or flat out sexual frustration...
Wtf? Let me get this straight (heh heh), if you don't pay your truckstop bill, you get sodomized?
Ever heard the stories in various prisons??
Yes, and after they come out and have access to women again, they go back to women.
I believe it's called "on the down-low"
Besides, Truckstop Bill doesn't scare me. When Truckstop Freddy Kreuger shows up I'm gettin' the hell outta Dodge!
But wtf is "spyco"?
Listen, I'll put this in a way you should understand. Do you get turned on by men AT ALL? If you don't, then it's no use trying to get turned on by men as you are clearly a heterosexual. If you ARE turned on by men then you are either bisexual or homosexual and no amount of praying or wishful thinking will change that. Also, of course gay people have gay sex for fun as heterosexual people have heterosexual sex for fun. That's just common sense.
"Actually I think its quite possible to learn to like truckstop bill sodomising you and vice versa."
That's a rather kinky fantasy. You can come out now, too, by the way.
Sure, you might be able to learn to like a certain way of sex. But, relationships are so much more than just the sex. It's love and attraction and friendship and partnership.
Or did you ONLY get married so you could have sex?
Oh, and straight people have anal and oral sex, too.
Marrying someone of the other gender, just to fit into society, is a violation of trust to that person, unless you inform her/him of your real attractions before the marriage takes place.
TED talk with straight spouse
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