Disagreeing with someone's view is one thing. Calling them an evil, intolerable abomination is hatred, pure and simple. Your book of myths doesn't contain any truth, it contradicts itself and science in many places. It never condemns abortion, in fact your god even orders pregnant women's stomachs to be ripped open. I'm not making this up.
Hosea 13:16; The people of Samaria must bear their guilt, because they have rebelled against their God. They will fall by the sword; their little ones will be dashed to the ground, their pregnant women ripped open.
The bible also doesn't really condemn homosexuality either, the verses that you think do were actually poorly translated. Also, the fact that you say people shouldn't feel intimidated by those who thinks everyone hates them is laughable, because fundamentalist Christians seem to have serious persecution complexes.