Siklic; You're an embarrassment to humans, Croatia, males & coconuts.
And "Incel" sounds like a computer thing..."INCEL INSIDE!"
If you treated people with the utmost kindness & respect, treated women like human beings & equals, were a true gentleman & a sweet, gentle, likeable soul....YOU WILL MOST LIKELY MEET A CUTE GIRL WHO WILL LOVE YOU & YOU HER AND THE PASSIONATE NOOKIES WILL ENSUE!
Please accept the psychiatric treatments & counseling. Your family is trying to help you.
That said, I'm afraid you're so messed up that you'll never see the light.
The problem is, Mr. Siklic, is that you want to have a gal while still being a malcontent jerk who does nothing on his part. You're like a guy who wishes he had good money but doesn't bother to get a job & assumes a bag of cash will just fall from the sky!
The sad truth is, Siklic, is that you have to work on yourself. You need to develop your social skills, learn to communicate better, become a kind, lovable caring person...compassionate, friendly, likeable, respectful, romantic, a good egg.
Sadly, I get the impression that your neurological makeup won't allow you to grow. The parts of your brain that control the ability to feel empathy, guilt & love has shut down horribly....in the same fashion as the worst serial killers & political despots. What I'm telling you is probably beyond your very comprehension.
Someday, medical science may find a way to re-stimulate those parts of the brain and cure Anti-Social/Sociopathic/Psychopathic brains.
THERE IS NO SHAME IN ADMITTING YOU HAVE A MENTAL/NEUROLOGICAL CONDITION! IT'S OKAY. IT DOESN'T DESERVE THE SHAME OR STIGMA. PEOPLE SHOULD BE ABLE TO SAY "YO! I'M MENTAL" & NOT BE OSTRACIZED! People with Cancer, Blindness, Paraplegics, or The Common Cold aren't looked upon as Eldritch Abominations, why should people with brain-based problems be?
I, myself, have ADHD, mild OCD & quirks concerning socialization. I have it and AM PROUD TO ADMIT IT!
Until then, get some really good, high-quality sex lube so you don't destroy your penis when you pleasure yourself.