The Brutal "no true romantic love" pill
Here's a fundamental truth. I bet one of the contributing factors for the reason why many of you are incel is the fact that you seek "true love." True "validation." "Mature love," "love beyond just flesh fucking." After all, "why not get an escort" or a "prostitute" then?
This doesn't exist.
You were taught from a very young age that there's something deep about a man loving a woman. Having the same interests, being able to laugh and josh in each other's presence. To be able to wake up next day to someone who loves you for who you are.
This love doesn't exist. Or if it does, it's so unabashedly rare that it might as well not exist.
Women either settle down with a guy they want to fuck, or they are stable enough to settle down with. Men settle down with a woman they want to fuck, or whatever options they have available. That's it. Here's the reason why you guys feel the way you do. You are sexually scarred. These feelings are immature, teenage and juvenile. Nobody ever gave you that. You could never eat ice-cream or have your parents take you out to the movies or have a sleepover and go swimming with a teenager of the opposite sex.
Most guys who do grow out of these naive feelings after having sex enough times or being with women long enough. A woman doesn't want a fucking teenage-mindset man to "validate" them. They want a beast who can fuck or someone who makes sufficient enough money to raise kids with. That's it. They don't want a "shy" "geeky" "immature" guy. They want a winner. Stop believing in the lie of "true romantic love." Two people want to fuck or decide "eh you are good enough to have kids with" and that's it. Ignore Hollywood movies. They are there to sway naive individuals into having more kids for the workforce.