Caamib, you might have been a sweet kid at age 11, but now you're an unhinged and randy nutjob who threatened and stalked a girl, expressed regret for neglecting to kill her, propositioned your mother, judge, and therapist, protested your self-inflicted celibacy in the nude outside a courthouse, pressured a woman into briefly copulating with you, publicized a blog to slander women who dare to rebuff your advances, and latterly kept insisting that women love twisted rapists and abusers, notwithstanding your romantic ineptitude. Thank Holy God that you're too craven to "verify" these assertions firsthand, because you subconsciously know that you are wrong, and that you are your own problem. Passerby may struggled with his own demons in the past, (we all do) but he's not a crazed and misogynistic asshole. Ergo, he's a better man than you. Of course, most people are better than you.
By the way, no one is paying for the likes of you to breed. The men who manage to woo and seduce their respective mates are predominantly charming and attractive in both demeanor and aspect. They also happen to be their lover's type. Everyone has their own preferences and criteria, which are used to select a suitable mate (contrary to what you believe, stupidity and immorality are not among the criteria for an ideal boyfriend). If you don't seem like a desirable partner to one woman, then you should move on to the next girl with grace, rather than seethe with bitterness. Don't take it personally; she just isn't interested in you. Of course, your attitude would alienate someone who regarded you as the ideal man (for whatever reason).
Try to be selflessly and genuinely nice to everyone. Your genuine and disinterested kindness won't guarantee or entitle you to a carnal relationship, but it will certainly facilitate your endeavor to find a nice girlfriend. It will be more effective than what you're currently doing, at least.
Above all, everyone else will slowly begin to care about you and cherish your presence in their lives. Ultimately, the goal of interpersonal relations is to grow as a person by valuing and consequently being valued by your fellow man. By doing so, you will find happiness and meaning in your existence.
