They are entitled to our time and attention. Just like babies.
I used to want males to be active in feminism. Back when I believed that some males could be trusted.
But now? I don't want them involved. And that is for a couple of reasons, but the main one is that I just don't want them there. Because their presence brings 1 of only 2 outcomes I have seen.
The first is that they know better than we do and they take over. The second is that they make everything all about them. Just like dudes at the store, the bank, while walking your dogs, etc.
The world is a malefest. I should be allowed to speak to women outside of a male presence every once in a fucking while.