God's commands against divorce in His Word are not unconditional, though He did say He hates divorce. He knows human suffering in relation to disasterous marriage because humans are naturally sinful and unloving. The commandments are overwhelmingly on purity and chastity. Divorce is really a case by case; the problem happens if the divorcee or divorced look for sex like animals on the expense of God's honor and the protection of children. Christians must protect marriage as if it's life itself, but there is a way to live out God's will even if divorce is committed.