I can only hope that though people will still disagree with me they will be able to read the posts and see...once again the ugliness of what misinformation can do to peoples reputations and names even in cyber space.Once again i will by numbers point out the truth.
1. Ben attends school.. and its a secular one with special Education and specially trained teachers and aides. provided and approved by the state.
2,He has even speech therapy and physical therapy.
3. Ben has toys to amuse himself like other kids,,,,, He has books,,, bouncing balls... and cards( uno) and things that amuse him and he likes and we for the most part let him choose as long as they don't violate our christian faith( toys connected with the occult )4. Ben has videos,,,, but CHOOSES the christian ones ,,,,, he likes them and we want him happy so why force a secular on him when he wants the christian one?The assumptions made on here because a quote was taken from christian site and torn to shreds is unbecoming of people who think themselves as intelligent.
You cant read a quote out of context and then make a statement of fact around it about a person./ Ben has all the things the school has to offer him and we have cooperated with them and have had a good report and relationship with his teachers, so the idea he is kept at home and home schooled or not given any education or fun and healthy stimuli is a LIE.Hearing people lie about my family and son who i deeply love and cherish makes me angry,,,, and frustrated specially when they are not wanting to listen,and i wont just sit by and let people say what they please and make a lie into a a fact because they want it to be a fact.The quotes u read are taken from another site where much more info in known because the people there know me a lot more and know much more of what i mean then the ones that seem to be trolls and peep and tom,s that go in the Christiane forums to see whats being said so they can pick things out twist them and then make a mockery our a family that loves and are doing their best for their boy including raising them in-the christian faith,,which is still believed in by billions of people world wide and is still legal in America.
Ben does listen to beautiful high class christian music because it brings peace into our home . Its brings peace to him and is obvious to anyone who sees him and hears these wonderful cds that i doubt most on here have any clue exist as they and he likes it., So most on here don't but he does and hands us the cds to listen to,. He was given a DVD of the Harlem globetrotters but has yet to get his attention..
He likes the beautiful christian music that brings smiles on all our faces and fills our home with calmness.. If u like rock and roll,, or listen to cds i wouldn't let in my drive way that is your business and though what many on this forum who seem to be very anti christian,, a atheists hideaway ,,and such would allow their kids to watch and listen to music or shows in my opinion would be abusive to a any child its not my right to wretch what u give your kids away or boss or tell u what to do. I think i can advise ,,, and plead with u a better way but not make things up, doubt your love or commitment to your family even though i would completely disagree with your methods. Christian music is not illegal and is very soothing and healthy and i wont apologize for it .
Ben is a beautiful boy who is loved and treasured. His life is one of love and joy and closeness with his family .Most have misjudged and just lied about us and our family structure based on quotes that have taken out of context and their right setting and room..
Quotes about me from one site have been high jacked taken out of context and brought here for unbelieving eyes or people who seem to have been embittered then jump to what u believe what u want when the whole story has to be repeated over and over to be sure the lies about our life are corrected as much as possible.
Ben is a boy with a pool.. a trampoline,.. his own room with TOYS. Toys i was accused of not letting him or my other kids have,,,, my grown daughters had so many toys we were drowning in dolls,,, barbies,,, stuffed animals,,, and such...have . Anyhow For the most part we let Ben choose his toys., unless its one that we believe is against or promotes ideals against our faith.
Ben is loved and taken care of and yes,,, i am a christian and do believe through Jesus Christ he is healed. I have seen miracles in his life due to the name of Jesus and much help and CHANGE CAME TO HIM BECAUSE OF PRAYER,,, i BELIEVE Jesus IS STILL ALIVE FOLKS. You don't. Real Christians are people who believe in the bodily Resurrection of a man called Jesus of Nazarene who lived on the earth 2000 years ago and was crucified. I believe and know is still is alive and lives and heals today.
All that Jesus went through was to bring healing to all mankind. Many have not been able to receive that healing as many refuse his salvation..but many have. I have heard the testimonies of people healed of autism and other neurological problem's through faith in Jesus Christ Gods son..
Yes i believe Ben is healed. I refuse to recant. Jesus healed him and Jesus is real in our life.I have seen the results of prayer and faith and a changed buy for the better because of a Jesus as Gods Son is still in the healing business.
But that does not mean i cant see symptoms of what doctors call autism. Thus we believe and speak,,,but that does not mean we deny him proper education and medical resources. Jesus heals cold to and he can do it in miraculous way or through a doctor ,,, But Doctors as far as i have heard though they are looking cant find a cure for this ,,so one must go the the only one with the antidote ,,the Creator and his Son Jesus Christ.
Ben in comparison to years ago is a different person,,happier,,more joyful and is acting more typical as the month es go by. I see it and know its true fist because the bible says so,, and to intense p;prayer and faith on his behalf and that Jesus who sits on the right hand OF GOD KNOWS ABOUT Ben AND HAS HEALED HIM BUT IS DOING IT IN A WAY THAT IS COMING FORTH AT A slow but steady pace...
I am grateful to the attention and care his teachers give him and suggestions and they are special people, They do Gods work also .. and we work with them the best we can but teachers can only do so much,,,, and even doctors will tell u there is no real healing from autism though they are doing the research. There are ways to help these dear people deal with their meltdowns and help them calm,,, and help them deal with things that bother them and the ones with less severe forms can even learn to clothe and talk some...Some have been proven to be highly intelligent.
This is not healing though,,, this is help but healing comes from God.
I do use doctors for myself and the kids... as God sues Doctors,,,,,( have i said this for the 5th time maybe/) but the deep inner healing of his neurological problem's of the past that caused the so called autism can only be healed and reversed by God himself who created Ben.Some things men have not yet been given the knowledge to heal,,,, and these neurological problems to be completely reversed and made 100% well can only come through Gods word.Can anyone say that Brain Cancer OR CERTAIN COMAS,, OR ALZHEIMER CAN BE cured? The medical community can help, bring comfort and reverse these things for a time but in most of these cases it has taken a miracle to get the person well,,
So why be mad at me because i believe God is big enough to use what the has blessed men in the natural with and believe that the supernatural has already taken place to?
I believe it has been down and little by little we are seeing as the months go by more and more manifestations of it. I have already others have seen it to.
I love my son. His whole family loves him and if u are not Christians and don't want to be that's your affair but try to be honest people and STOP THE RAMBLING LIES , I have refuted over and over.,
1Ben DOES attend school.
2. Ben attends special class"s.
3. We have access to speech therapy and use it.
4. We go to doctors.
5. We have TV though we watch a lot of christian TV at times..that is true we also watch other things to
we are strict and don't allow every horrible thing on( things on TV are getting harder for me to find things good to watch even for a adult) and i do censor the TV for myself and kids sake but once in this country keeping the filth that is often on the TV from innocent children s eyes was once considered a good thing. But nevertheless though we gladly allow him, much Christan DVD s which he hands us... and clearly enjoys... we have other TV shows that are watched,such as news,,, the more older cartoons and TV shows with his dad such as " Deadliest Catch"... "Dirty jobs" and some sports.
But no i don't let him watch R rated movies and yes,,,, he listens to christian music which has brought us all happiness as it brings peace to our home.
Ben goes out to eats at restraunts and shops with us,,, and and does fun stuff at school.
In the summer he has the joys of his pool and trampoline and sitting with family on a back porch happily.He even for a short time in the summer attends school.
Ben shows all of us he loves and is fully aware of us.But i will live with u with this,,,though i re3psect doctors and use them as i have even for myself as i have been sick,, and use the educational system which is a law... i still have rights to freedom of religion and thought and yes...
I believe with my whole heart Ben is already healed when Jesus dies and rose again and that the day is coming this boy will talk .
It may be today.Just be happy for him. that he is loved and cared for in a family that speaks good over him,.believes the best for him and believes that Jesus is the giver of all these things.
You have the truth,,, like a gem of great value treat it with respect.
I don't really want to go around and around on this as i say the same stuff over and over and only maybe two people have even half listened to me .You have been told the truth. I have told u if u hear something that may sound strange u heard me say at D.M ask in a respectful matter what i mean by that and not go off the rocker saying things and cursing and assuming , and making threats assuming things never said. But things that were taken out of context.
I don't think this site ever thought anyone like me would find this place and have the nerve to say u were wrong , there have been threats on me and my kids safety based on lies being told, so please stop it,,be civil,, respectful.
Please leave my family in peace now as we have nothing to anyone here but confront this forum with the truth and didn't give the lies and half truths and threats a pass. and only wish to live peaceable and be left in peace and not lied about.
You have been given the truth... please... just either graciously accept that the notions bandied about here have been wrong,,, ask questions and learn a little from someone of a different persuasion .
I wish all well here... God bless all your house and children with rich blessings for the coming Autumn...
Shalom to all..Though i know more posts will probably be once again opened to public ridicule i real;ly will have to call the ) "dueling banjos"( No pun intended from the movie): just weary with who will back off first so ill be a lady and one more time put the truth out here and go my way..._ quits here as i have other things to do.
Anyway... i can talk to my friends at Sm in private and no longer open up my life to this unfair scrutiny which i didn't think was possible as i thought i was on a closed site. Now that im more informed i talk about my life and ask question at D.M and other places in a more quiet format.The name Jewels will be retired anyway..
and the banjo.
I have made my point... and if people who call this site home or are comfortable here wont believe me or give me the benefit of the doubt by now its doubtful a thousand rebuttals wont convince you,.
Anyway,,, Have a Good life.. theirs only one we live ..on this earth earth and we all wont it to be a happy one for ourselves,,kids s and neighbors.
That i think most on here can agree on.