Woman are friends with woman, and they have sex with men. So if you’re her friend, you’re a vagina. You ask this girl to be your gf, she rejects you but ask if we can still be friends. That’s a insult, she thinks less of you. A male and female aren’t suppose to be friends, they’re suppose to be love intrest. So basically you’re a vagina, because girls are suppose to be friends with girls, and fuck men. Also girls are horrible friends, all they do is leech off you, and cause drama.
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What about female relatives?
I bow to your obvious experience of being rejected. Your conclusions are crap, of course, but they're probably coming from your pain at rejection. The best remedy for that is to stop being offended, because "butthurt" is a very unattractive look, and to marry someone who is a lover but ALSO a friend. Somehow I don't think that's in your future.
You ask this girl to be your gf, she rejects you but ask if we can still be friends. That’s a insult, she thinks less of you.
No, she just doesn’t want to be your girlfriend.
. A male and female aren’t suppose to be friends, they’re suppose to be love intrest.
So you are trying to hook up with every single woman in your life? That sounds exhausting.
Also girls are horrible friends, all they do is leech off you, and cause drama.
You are the one advising others to run off in a huff if a woman rejects their sexual advances and you are accusing others of causing drama!? That’s rich.
So when a girl rejects you, and puts you in the friendzone, it’s a insult. Next time she says let’s just be friends, say no thank you.
If you don’t want to be friends with the woman, fine. But don’t act like every woman is somehow supposed to hook up with every man who hits on her.
Oh just shut the fuck up. Just because you can't be friends with a woman without wanting to jump her bones doesn't mean the rest of us can't. If a woman isn't romantically interested in you, she's not romantically interested in you. I'm sure you're not romantically interested in every woman you meet.
I loathe the notion that men and women can't be friends. I'm a man and the majority of my friends are women -- and the vast majority of those are women I've never been attracted to.
Honestly. Where does this notion come from?
Yes getting rejected sucks. Trust me, I would know.
Maybe I'm just jaded but my experience has lead me to believe that if you are her "friend" you have already blown her chance with her.
For some reason women expect to be approached romantically right away. If you don't express your feelings soon after meeting them then they stop seeing you as a potential partner.
I have made the mistake in the past of getting to know a women first before expressing interest in her. The most recent time it crashed and burned horribly. Never again.
"Next time she says let’s just be friends, say no thank you."
This is actually pretty good advice. Unless of course both genuinely want to be "just friends".
@Mathius_dragoon If you try to start a relationship with a woman before getting to know her, you'll end up with a woman with low emotional intelligence.
I always assumed that a guy who "expressed interest" in me soon after meeting was only interested in my body, not my personality.
@Mathius-dragoon
In my experience romantic (sexual) relationships start very soon after meeting or don't happen at all. They also
Of course non sexual relationships with members of the
>Mathius_dragoonsocial self-esteem, especially when it comes to imagining myself as a desirable boyfriend, and not entirely undeserved - I am morbidly obese, socially inept, reclusive, emotionally distant, disorganised, untidy, macabre, prone to monologues (fortunately, I think I at the beginning of the stage where many of these problems will improve). It would certainly be a great boost to know that a woman could still discover her love for me. In addition, I am not sure that I would be actually able to recognise if I fall in love, or found the "right" woman, on my own. Also, I like assertive tomboyish women.
PS:
I'm a woman and have male friends who are in their twenties all the way up to in their eighties. I'm also married. I sincerely doubt that any of these men (except for my husband) want anything more from me than witty conversation, something tasty for their potluck supper, or the occasional help with gardening or moving.
A friend is a light that refuses to let you go in absolute darkness. A moment of warmth in a blizzard that chills your blood and bones. A friend is something that makes you believe you're worth something when you don't, that you're better than you think and maybe even inspires you to be better than you are. A friend is there to pick you up out of the dust. A friend is there to knock you on your ass when you lose sight of yourself.
Take it from someone who counts their friends on one hand: If this is how you decide the value of any friend you don't deserve a single one.
Be lost in the cold darkness, a stranger to yourself drowning in pain. You chose it.
@Mathius_dragoon:
Nearly all of my female partners started out as friends. Out of the few that didn't, all but one turned out to be completely incompatible with me.
Confused?
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