Every now and then I try to give some solid sound advice to the women who follow me online. Although I can be considered somewhat controversial at times, I'm always honest and truthful with what I write. And what you're about to read will not be any different. With that being said:

LADIES, be careful when your guy only wants to spend time with the fellas but never with you! Something's wrong with that picture. I'm not saying a guy should want to spend all his free time with his woman. That would be abnormal too.

Sometimes you need time away from each other just to decompress and enjoy your own self doing the things you were already interested in doing before you got with the one you're with. Besides, if you're under each other too much you'll eventually start getting on each others last nerve. A little well-timed strategic space will water the garden of any relationship and keep it fertile.

What I'm referring to in this article is the guy who has to always hang out with his 'boys' but rarely makes time to hang with his woman. That's not normal, and something is definitely amiss.

Why would I want to hang with a bunch of dudes all day and night when I have a soft pretty woman at home waiting on me?

In light of the confusion in gender and sexuality that we currently live in, I would ask you to carefully consider: are you sure those are your man's homies, and not his homos? Particularly if they like hanging out at the gym to work out all the time!

"Going to the gym" is one of the oldest excuses (and lies) used by bisexual and gay men to meet up with other males to do the nasty with. It provides a convenient excuse for why he comes home all sweaty, nasty, out of breath and needing a shower.

Her: 'Where are you going?"

Him: 'Me and the guys are going to "work out" at the gym.'

Her: 'Again? You just worked out a few days ago?'

Him: 'You know how it is. We worked on our "back muscles" that day. Today we're going to work on our "glutes".'

Her: (totally oblivious to the coded language being used here): 'Oh okay. Have fun.'

Him: (under his breath): 'Oh, we will.'

There is a lot of undercover faggotry taking place in the land today. So you need to be aware of the signs. And yes, this does swing both directions. Many woman are also using the 'going to work out' with the home-girls excuse to carry on their lesbian abominations. You might think that's her best friend from college. Unbeknownst to you that's been her best lover since college! And you're just as dumb and oblivious as a rat picking cheese out of a mouse trap.

This doesn't mean to start suspecting your guy of cheating every time he makes a run to the store. Let's not get crazy here. In all things let wisdom prevail. It's simply to make you aware that some guys enjoy batting from the back of the cage—if you get my drift. In this day and time, your job is to make sure your man isn't one of them.

Check out his friends. Do any of them appear to be a bit questionable in their sexuality? Have you ever detected a subtle tinge of sweetness in any of his so-called homies? Are they married or in relationships with women? Or are they perpetually single guys living the single life?

No matter what others may tell you: birds of the same feather flock together. Men in committed relationships should be tight with guys equally the same. And when you're in a committed relationship you don't spend the bulk of your free time with your friends. You spend it with your mate.

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