Several of my college classmates lost family members to the WTC attacks on 9/11.
I lost friends on 9/11, but II'm not going to sit here and blame a bunch of people who had nothing whatsoever to do it.
Muslims lost all their rights that day.
No, they didn't, That's not how america works. Did you go around calling for all christians to lose their rights after the OKC bombing? Or after any one of the many abortion clinic bombings? The is no such thing as "The Muslims", there are 1+ billion individuals who each have their own unique idea of what islam means to them. There is no overarching doctrine that applies to every single muslim without exeption.
When they learn to love their children more
I'm sorry, but you don't get to judge whether or not, or how much, that somebody loves their children.
than they hate our culture
9/11 had nothing to do with hating our culture, it had to do with our foreign policy. History did not begin on 9/11, we were attacked, in part, because of our of our prescence on the Arabian Peninsula, our support of brutal dictatorships across the middle east, our support of Israeli settlement and their oppression and disenfranchisement of palestinians. They may not like or agree with our culture, but that as not the driving force behind the 9/11 attacks.
they can have their right to complain back.
Neither you, nor any other person and/or group has the right or the ability to strip anyones rights from them. Further more, no matter how many times you say it, no matter how much you want it to be true, the blame from 9/11 will never, ever appy to the entirety of the worlds muslims. The blame lies solely with those who planned and carried the attacks.
Should the whole of of any ethnic group or religion be blamed for the acts of a small handful of it's members? If your anser to that is anything other than "no" then you are fucking hypocrite who wants to have your cake and eat it too.