Posting about rape:
"BUT having been in more than one situation of a forced sexual encounter, I have to say that there is a difference to some degree. I've been forced to have sex with my husband, but it wasn't violent or anything...just wasn't worth the fight to get him off me. I don't think that warrents punshment I don't guess."
Later in the same post:
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I've been forced to have sex with my husband, but it wasn't violent or anything...just wasn't worth the fight to get him off me.
I really, really hope this woman gets some common sense and a divorce.
You really need help.
If you're considering fighting him off, it is rape no matter how many repulsive verses you trot out to justify it. And if he beats you for resisting, how is it that you don't recognize what's going on?
Well, I wouldn't necessarily blame the husband. As Detrs pointed out, he might not even *know* what is going on. But no matter what is actually going on here, this kind of self-flagellating behavior is just sickening. Seriously, this girl needs to wake up and get a little self respect. If the guy actually *is* abusive, she should leave him. If he's just ignorant, then there is no need *whatsoever* for this woman to feel this way.
having been in more than one situation of a forced sexual encounter
I'm honestly not sure this quote belongs on FSTDT. It's certainly fundie, but I think of this site as somewhere to refute, mock, and laugh at fundies. This post is not funny or mockworthy, though; it is truly disturbing and I feel terrible for lynnmoon. Her husband - or is that her rapist? - is a despicable excuse for a human being.
Sorry dear, but in that same verse they say that the husband´s body belongs also to the wife, so I think that you would be HYPOTHETICALLY allowed to rape him too. Anyway, your last sentence is a non-contradiction award.
God, this always makes me so sad. The scripture says he belongs to you, too. You're allowed to say no to someone who belongs to you. According to scripture, your body belongs as much to you as it does to your husband, and it belongs to God more than anything - and your husband is defiling you.
This is really, really upsetting. I feel absolutely awful for that woman, but at the same time, I just want to take her by the shoulders, shake her, and ask her what the fuck is wrong with her.
The truly saddest part of this is that she is sharing this with everybody on that forum, and yet,,, I don't know if she's ever shared it with her husband. I mean does he even know that she feels this way?
Fundie Stockholm Syndrome award, clearly. And the saddest part is that, depending on who brainwashed her and when, she may be her own and only jailer/tormenter... (of course, the possibility of her husband being an abusive lowlife also exists)
The feeling I get from this post is that lynnmoon knows, at some deep level, that what's happening in her marriage is wrong. That the idea of her body being her husband's property is wrong, and that being forced to have sex with her husband is wrong. She sounds like she's struggling to reconcile her real life with the Bibble, and she knows she's coming up short.
oh, honey. i am so, so, SO sorry. my heart just hit the floor and quivered with pity for you. i hope you've seen reality between this post and now.
So, is it ok to kill wives, for example?, after all, if your body belongs to him.............
Confused?
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