Sometimes the truth hurts. Its like a medicine, tastes bitter but it makes you well. For me, that's the way things supposed to be between a man and his wife. They wouldn't openly admit it, but women does enjoy getting spanked. They love it when a man disciplines her. The funny thing is, they will never mention to her man that they love what he had done to her. Usually, she would just cry and ask for it to stop but deep inside her she wish that he never stops.
I'm not completely sure if she's just implying some women, or all women.
If it's the former, then eh. BDSM can be fun. If it's the latter, sounds like a few steps from a rape apologist. It's offensive, but I'm not completely sure just how fundamentalist we're talking here. Except maybe BDSM fundamentalist...
I know a former Marine and LA County deputy who lost his wife, his job and custody of his kids because he 'disciplined' his wife with spanking.
He has now become a Baptist preacher.
In this case, the so-called truth is actually arsenic -- tastes like shit, and makes things much, much worse.
As someone who is actually female, I'm fairly certain that I don't want a man to spank me, beat me, belittle me, or "discipline" me in any way. Perhaps my silly little woman brain is too dim to understand what I really want, and needs a man to tell it what to like or dislike?
I suppose, considering how these fundie morons like to embrace their pain- and guilt-filled worldview, that this kind of thinking wouldn't be considered odd to them.
P.S. I love the post by ixolite right under this one.
And, according to your standards, when is a person saying NO?. Say if, for example, I have a gun and I intend to shoot you and you say no. Does it apply to you too?
My four expired restraining orders, my permanent 10/10 on the pain scale chronic muscular pain from getting thrown into/though walls, and my application for a concealed carry if the asshole ever finds me again says differently.
This is when I hope there is a hell and anyone that thinks like orangupahan goes there and experiences *my* painful daily life, which is the worst thing I can imagine. These are the only threads that get me riled up.
because of course, you
know what everyone is thinking "deep inside" and are far too perfect a person to be just saying that because it excuses that fact that you want to. Since 'wont admit it' and 'doesn't think it' are indistinguishable on the outside, it makes perfect sense to just assume that all women want to fulfill your little dominance fantasies.
They wouldn't openly admit it, but women does enjoy getting spanked (sic).
That's why safe, sane, consenting adults use 'safewords' ;-)
"Sometimes the truth hurts. Its like a medicine, tastes bitter but it makes you well."
Yes. But you know what else hurts? Slander, and malicious falsehoods. You know what else tastes bitter? Well...a lot of things that you probably be ingesting...
"but women does enjoy getting spanked"
Das guud grammer. Also: no, not all women like to be spanked.
"Usually, she would just cry and ask for it to stop but deep inside her she wish that he never stops"
Holy @#%&! That is the most disturbing, out-of-blue rendition of the rape myth that I have ever seen!
They wouldn't openly admit it, but women does enjoy getting spanked.
I suppose some women do enjoy it. There are also some women who enjoy having long needles pushed into their breasts.
A little spanking can be fun, but if you're talking about holding your wife down and beating her ass because she's "sinned", that is abuse. Abusing your wife is not cool. Women are not children to turn over your knee because they "disobeyed" you. Asshole.
If a guy raises a hand to me to "discipline" me in any other context besides a fun and kinky one, I'm going to raise mine right back. I will defend myself. Did I also mention I used to throw around 250lb rocks on the trail crew for nine months?
Now, maybe some chicks like spanking, and good for them for having a special kink they enjoy. But that doesn't mean ALL of us like it.
You know, if your going to play BDSM games, you gotta play by BDSM rules.
Safe, sane and consensual.
Risk aware consensual kink.
Note the word consensual in both.
Oh. My. God. (not in the religious sense.)
If begging you to stop smacking her didn't mean "stop hitting me or I'll leave you," what the h*** WOULD mean stop? (Oh, yeah, I forgot, that's why safety words were invented.)
Look, man, just get on one of the many spanking fetish websites and find yourself a woman who really does like discipline and says so. Leave women who don't enjoy domination alone. Then everyone's happy.
Truth hurts? It's like a medicine? OK
The Bible is a collection of Babylonian fairy tales, mistranslations, misinterpretations, selected omissions, selected additions, distortions, flights of fancy, aggressive editting and bare-faced lies specially compiled by the unscrupulous to control us by the fear of the consequences of our non-compliance.
Do you want sugar with that?
If you're a woman projecting, much? Just because you're ashamed of your BDSM fetish, doesn't mean you have to go projecting your preferences on everyone else... If you can just accept yourself the way you are, then that's the first step towards sanity...
And if you're a man you're completely disgusting and psychotic. I can't think of a step you could take that would bring you anywhere near sanity.
Michael, he couldn't care less about the bible, he's a mohammedan. <<
While you may be right, didn't that word go out of fashion about a hundred years ago?
A man and
his wife? What about a woman and her husband?
I'm pretty sure I don't enjoy getting spanked, or being disciplined for that matter.
In my book you discipline children; a woman is not a child.
This reeks of, screams wishful thinking. I bet orangupahan is a man.
A disgusting insecure little man, who can't take an equal relationship with a confident woman.
That thing Michael said about the Bible can probably be said about the Quran too. Just switch the name of the book in question.
So were we! You can find all of this, and more, on Fundies Say the Darndest Things!
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