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I [21M] found some very sexual "modeling" photos of my sister [12F] on my brother's [16M] computer...?!


I think there are two separate questions; what to do about your sister and what to do about your brother.
The linkage of innocence with sexuality is a western one and a false one. Many children, especially those at/near puberty (12/13) are quite sexual. She can enjoy little girl things and also be sexual, the two are not mutually exclusive. Your sister may enjoy the modelling (the attention and the chance at fame). In her case, I think the important thing would be ensuring that she is choosing to participate in this activity freely. Maybe try to talk to her privately about it, or talk to her sister and see if she can talk to her. I don't think you should bring it up with others until you know if she wants to participate in the modelling. She may enjoy it and want to continue with it, even if she does find some of the poses uncomfortable.
In the case of her brother, only call the cops if you want to ruin his life. If your in the US, clothed images that focus on genitalia can constitute child porn; which potentially leads to being a registered sex offender. I don't think the collection in and of itself is harmful - though it is fairly strange. I doubt he has done anything with her (though I'd guess he has fantasized about it - fantasies can be more appealing when there's a small chance of them happening). If he had I'd think he'd be more cautious, not openly sharing the photos with friends. He may take pride in being related to a junior idol.


You are making the assumption that your sister is being exploited; that is obviously possible and something I agree you should look into. But it is also possible that she is a willing participant and enjoys the modelling.
I think she should be allowed to make the choice, to participate or not to participate. If she is being forced or coerced into the modelling you should do what you can to help her get out of it. But if she is willingly participating, I think she should be allowed to make the choice to continue.
Children are capable of making decisions for themselves. I think you should respect her choice either way. American culture does its best to view children as innocent and asexual, but the reality is that by 12/13 most children are well aware of what sex is (and many have participated in it, either alone or with others).

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